London (England) -- History -- 17th century; London (England) -- Social life and customs -- 17th century
At weddings wheat was scattered on the head of the bride; scarves,
gloves, and ribbons of the bride’s colours were presented to the
bridesmen; at the church the company carried rosemary; after the
ceremony the bride handed the cup around; it contained “sops in wine”
hallowed, and was called the knitting cup; afterwards was presented
the bride cake, but not in the church; there was a great feast, as
sumptuous as the bride’s father could afford; the bride wore her
hair on this, her last appearance as a maiden, down her back. She
distributed at her wedding, bride laces. At the better houses an
epithalamium was pronounced; in the case of rich people there was
a masque; in all houses, rich or poor, there was music, there was
bride-ale, and there was feasting. There was also fooling of various
kinds, with jests not the most seemly, and forms and ceremonies not the
most refined, which have long since been abandoned. Even in that time
voices were lifted up against the licence of the wedding sports.
Flowers, herbs, and rushes were strewed before the footsteps of the
bride on her way to church. It was unlucky if the rain fell upon a
wedding, and equally unlucky if the bride failed to weep during the
ceremony. The lucky days for weddings were as follows:—
Jan. 2, 4, 11, 19, 21.
Feb. 1, 3, 10, 19, 21.
March 3, 5, 12, 20, 23.
April 2, 4, 12, 20, 22.
May 2, 4, 12, 20, 23.
June 1, 3, 11, 19, 21.
July 1, 3, 12, 19, 21, 31.
Aug. 2, 11, 18, 20, 30.
Sept. 1, 9, 11, 18, 28.
Oct. 1, 8, 15, 17, 27, 29.
Nov. 5, 11, 13, 22, 25.
Dec. 1, 8, 10, 19, 23, 29.
It was unlucky to have the banns called at the end of one quarter and
the marriage at the beginning of the next.
The superstitions, indeed, connected with weddings were innumerable.
Let it suffice to quote Herrick in the concluding ceremony:—
“And now the yellow vaile at last
Over her fragrant cheek is cast.
* * * * *
You, you, that be her nearest kin,
Now o’er the threshold force her in,
But to avert the worst
Let her, her fillets first
Knit to the posts: this point
Rememb’ring, to anoint
The sides: for ’tis a charme
Strong against future harme:
And the evil deads, the which
There was hidden by the witch.”
[Illustration: “CORPE BEARER” IN THE TIME OF A PLAGUE AT LONDON
From a contemporary print in the British Museum.]
The funeral customs are described in the following (_Antiq. Rep._ iv.
585):—
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