Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
Now, the woman lives more by her emotions than the man. The part she
plays in the propagation of the kind is also by far the more important
one. She has to supply the whole material for the formation of the new
being; the man only supplies the stimulation to this heroic work. The
woman’s centre of sexual activity is, therefore, more developed. The
activity of the generative centres occupies an important position in
the activity of her brain as a whole. Sexual life concerns her more
nearly, more deeply and more lastingly than the man. She is able to
do nothing else but love. Sexual matters imperiously mingle with all
her motives and influence all her aims. To her love is life. Marriage
is her highest ideal, and domestic happiness is and ever will be her
ultimate aim.[AL]
Women, even maidens, says Hume, take more offence at satires upon
matrimony than taunts upon their sex. Woman knows the attraction her
sex has upon the other, and smiles at the insincerity of sex-criticism.
But matrimony is holy to her. She has a natural tendency to regard
wedded love as the single aim and substance of the life of human
beings. Sexual consciousness is stronger in her than in man, and her
need of true love is greater. She lives largely in her affections, and
her constant desire is to attract and please.
In her natural state the woman, therefore, possesses a more distinctly
developed ideal. On dissecting and analyzing the female heart at any
age, and however married, we should probably find that the original
ideal is still lingering there. Woman is constantly groping and making
experiments, whereby she attempts to realize the ideal of her dreams
in the actual men of her acquaintance. The instinct of selection is
very important to her. By it she recognizes her affinity, the man best
fitted by nature to father her children. She unconsciously feels the
need of a partner who will organically compliment her. She possesses an
instinctive sensation of what is organically necessary to her for the
continuation and intensification of her qualities in the offspring.
For the woman the step of choosing a partner is the most important
act of her life. She has an instinctive sensation that she ought
not to make a mistake, and is extremely careful to avoid the least
likelihood of error. She instinctively feels that her mistakes cannot
be corrected. She is monoandric in character. She is aware that purely
sensual love cannot last. Hence she looks more for mental merits,
and has a high appreciation of a fine character. She is looking for
qualities that will outlive the freshness of physical charms. Her
innate solicitude is to continue the love-charm all through married
life. Hence she is governed by ideas of the sublime and the beautiful.
Only a man endowed with such qualities can inspire in her true love
and its unsurpassed pleasure and joy in life. When so inspired, she
surrounds the object of her love with the halo of perfection.
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