Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
Another part of contemporary literature which is continually
undermining the foundation of true love is the feministic branch.
These writers are not satisfied to preach equality of the sexes. They
constantly emphasize the superiority of the female sex. From this
notion to the sermon of sex-antagonism is only one step, and this
has been quickly enough made. Mutual admiration, trust and love have
given place to the duel of the sexes. Even the father has been thrown
overboard. These modern daughters act as if they had come to this
world by the way of parthenogenesis. The sermon of the enmity of the
sexes thus destroys not only true love, but the entire conception of
the family and serves to blight the brightest and sweetest flowers,
springing in the garden of the human heart. No wonder that the girl who
has been influenced by such ideas has been made unfit for true love.
Her judgment has become confused by overestimating her own worth and
valuing the man solely for his capacity to supply the luxuries of life
and to satisfy sensual desires. She has little love even for the man
of her choice, and is not reluctant to show it on every occasion. A
bride objecting to the word “obey” in the wedding ceremony—even granted
that such a word does not and never did belong there—reveals at once
her lack of true love. A girl truly in love with the man laughs at
the word, because she feels that she would rather be his slave than
any other man’s queen. To the lover the bride’s promise to obey seems
mere folly, for he is determined that she should always remain the
autocratic queen of his heart and actions. But when love is absent,
and the wedding represents nothing more than a contract to legalize
sensuality, which is otherwise considered immoral, every objection to
the wording of the contract is justified and perfectly natural.
The female sex, says Kant, may be characterized by two inclinations,
the desire to dominate, and the desire for pleasure. These two
tendencies may be mitigated by true love. The truly loving woman will
gladly and voluntarily share material misfortune and social degradation
with her lover. She will overcome her egotism, she will labor hard to
overcome her old faults and cheerfully give up what she once looked
upon as necessaries for the love of a true man. But the modern woman
looks upon the man only as a slave to provide for her, and as a thing
affording her enjoyment. Hence she regards the miserable weakling,
whose imbecile brain has not the power of resistance, as touching and
charming, while vigorous strength of character, which is schooled in
self-control and which places as high a value on the affection afforded
as on that received, seems to her repulsive roughness. This blending
of her judgment becomes fatal to her love, so important to the female
heart.
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