Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
_Jealousy._—The desire for the satisfaction of personal vanity and the
commonly erroneous assumption of the better judgment of one sex about
the excellence of the other, are of the greatest importance in the
psychology of jealousy.
Sexual jealousy[AO] consists of three different emotions: 1) anguish
at the suspicion or knowledge of violated chastity or outraged
affection; 2) rage at a rival, and 3) revenge for the violation of a
vested right. Anguish is the primary emotion, rage and revenge are
its results. There are always three actors in every case of jealousy,
the outraged victim, the mate and the rival. Of the three emotions
anguish relates to the male, rage to the rival, and revenge concerns
both the rival and the mate. In the analysis of the different emotions
in the train of jealousy it is found that anguish, anxiety, fear
and despair, which accompany jealousy and apparently constitute its
essence, are not caused by outraged affection only, for the highest
degree of jealousy is often found where love has long ceased to exist,
and even when hatred has already entered into the relation of the
mates. Anguish over violated chastity does not explain jealousy either,
for jealousy is found among savages, who unhesitatingly lend their
wives to others, or offer them as a courtesy to other men without any
thought of their wives’ chastity. Neither does interference with one’s
enjoyment explain jealousy. For the husband is always jealous of his
wife’s lover, while the lover is rarely jealous of the husband. Yet the
husband’s opportunity of interfering with the lover’s possession is by
far greater than that of the latter with the husband’s. Thus fear of
interference cannot play any great part in the emotion of jealousy.
The revenge for the violation of vested rights cannot alone explain
the terrible emotion of jealousy, which the royal poet of the “Song of
Songs” declares to be “as cruel as the grave.” Besides, jealousy is
often found where there are no vested rights at all, only a pretended
claim.
The cause of jealousy must, therefore, be sought elsewhere. There must
be a reason for the husband’s jealousy of a lover and the absence of
this emotion in the mind of the lover towards the husband and the
presence of jealousy in the heart of the lover in relation to any other
succeeding lover. There must be a reason why the lover usually feels a
kind of exultation at deceiving the husband or any other lover who has
a previous claim upon the woman’s affection.
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