Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
Mixoscopy becomes pathological when it degenerates into panderism
or bawdry for the sole purpose of sensual gratification. The main
motives of catering for the lust of others, by aiding and patronizing
an existent love-affair or by calling such an affair into being, says
Meller (O. Sexual Probleme, 1912, p. 480), are of three different
kinds. There is 1) the pecuniary motive or the motive of avarice,
found in the professional matchmaker and in the procurer; 2) there
is the motive of toadyism, the sycophant will descend so low in his
degradation even to the point of becoming the pander or bawd of his or
her superior; 3) the erotic motive, when the pander or bawd acts out
of love of the subject. The first two motives are more or less to be
counted among the vices, the third motive has a pathological basis.
When an erotic interest is at play only, the activity of the pander
or bawd becomes pathological in nature. It is found in persons who
through old age, disease, ugliness, poverty, shyness, etc., cannot
themselves share in the enjoyments of love and who, by assisting
at the gratification of lust by others, try to procure themselves
an opportunity of experiencing a certain part of the pleasure by
identifying themselves with or entering into the spirit of those whom
they aided to the lust.
The emotions connected with mixoscopy or the bawdry complex is oftener
found in women than in men. There are even mothers who aid and favor
the love-affairs of their daughters, where no material advantage could
in any way accrue to themselves or to their daughters, simply out of
lust which they expect to experience when being present at or thinking
of the erotic incidents between their children and their lovers. The
following history well illustrates this point:
Mrs. O., forty-five years of age, married for the last twenty-five
years, never had a child. She was operated upon a few years after she
was married, and uterus and ovaries were removed at that operation.
Twenty years after her castration, when the impotence of libido must
have been complete, a nephew of hers, nineteen years old, came to live
with his aunt and uncle. The aunt soon induced the mere boy to engage
himself with a young lady of twenty-three years of age. Although the
aunt well knew that certain legal obstacles prevented the boy from
marrying the young lady, still, in order to enjoy the love-making of
the young people, she did not rest until she effected the engagement.
When the young fiancée left for the West where she was to stay for a
considerable length of time, the aunt induced the boy to dissolve the
engagement and procured him another young lady with whom he again had
to become engaged. When the nephew left for a foreign country where he
was to stay several years, the castrated aunt had no use any longer
for the second fiancée either, began to quarrel with her and finally
forbade her to enter her house.
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