Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
The erotomaniac individual’s love is of a platonic nature. Erotomania
constitutes a diseased form of ideal love. The physical sexual appetite
is generally foreign to the erotomaniac. The object of the individual’s
love occupies the mind only. It is a continual obsession of the spirit.
The erotomaniac individual makes an abstraction of the physical
personality of the adored. It is pursuing an ideal. The erotomaniac
is the victim of a mental exaltation which moves the lover to write
poetry and love-letters to the object of his or her dreams, without
ever sending them off. If possible the erotomaniac follows his or her
lover, but never addresses a word to him or her. The erotomaniac wishes
to be in possession of the beloved being, to be wedded to the beloved
one, but it never thinks of the sensual part. It is after the mental
possession of the beloved one.
The love of the erotomaniac individual rests upon a vague and hazy
ideal. It is the purest love possible. The relation is sacred and
beautiful. It is a kind of cult. The beloved object is a divinity whom
the patient worships upon his or her knees and whom he and she takes
care not to profane even by a carnal kiss.
The following case of a fellow-worker in the pathological institute of
a university in Switzerland is not uninstructive in this respect:
While working over the microscope at the same table, the young
physician told the author the following story of his life when he
was a boy of sixteen. He was at that time attending college in a
middle-sized city in Germany. One day a college friend took him to his
home, where he saw his friend’s sister, a young lady of twenty-three
years of age, and immediately fell in love with her.
Although he was, already at that time, far enough advanced in the
ways of the world to see the hopelessness of his love, still the
incongruity between the ideal and reality was entirely forgotten. He
was altogether oblivious of the material world and imagined himself
floating in the realms of the spirits, while dreaming of exquisite
harmonies.
Day and night he saw before him the object of his adoration. He was
filled with ecstasy over her perfection which was greatly exaggerated
and only existed in his imagination. For now, with a clearer judgment,
he can see distinctly that she must have had noticed at that time
his childish emotions and, out of vanity, was somewhat playing with
them. In his diaries he finds pledges of perennial veneration and
worship and vows of eternal resignation. His memoirs are filled with
descriptions of his hopes and fears, joys and sorrows, wishes and
despairs.
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