Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
The ignorance prevailing about the dangers of venereal diseases is
also responsible for the levity with which marriages with profligates
are contracted. By a strange irony of fate, the diseases of vice,
transplanted to the bed of virtue, often become intensified in
virulence. Still with many girls the man who has most promiscuously
and profusely scattered his “wild oats” has been looked upon as the
most favored one among possible husbands. How there can be anything
alluring to marry a man with a past, when there is the great peril that
the young bride may get up on the morning after the wedding-day an
invalid for life, can only be explained by the lack of knowledge of the
gravity of venereal diseases. If the mother knew that a man who has
led an unclean life is not a safe husband for her daughter, if she were
aware of the fact that dissipated men do not make desirable husbands,
she would look more for virtue than money in the future son-in-law.
If the girl knew the host of indeterminable lesions which may follow
in the wake of various venereal diseases, if she knew all the dangers
lurking for her and her offspring, she would never condone moral
depravity in her husband and the father of her children. Her whole
nature would revolt against the wedlock with a man whose body is a sink
of corruption. It will be she who will have to suffer most. It is upon
the woman that the burden of shame and suffering, of disease and death,
is chiefly laid.
The danger of sexual exploitation of young girls by certain men is much
greater, the less the girls are instructed about the social dangers and
the physiological consequences of a chance acquaintance. The girl ought
to be taught that one mistake blasts a young girl’s life. Let a young
woman stray but once from the path of virtue, or let there be even one
breath of suspicion against her virtue, whether well founded or not,
and there is no forgiveness to her in this world. She has suffered an
irretrievable loss. Her greatest enemy in such a case is woman herself.
Society admits the acknowledged libertine to its most exclusive
circles, but forever ostracises the woman whose one false step has been
found out. The man may emerge from the mire of dissipation without a
spot or blemish upon his character, for the woman, there is no return.
Shame and degradation follow her even to the grave.
If the girl further knew the physiological consequences of her
transgression, if she knew that she may become gravid, and thus publish
to the world her folly, such cases as are often seen in maternity
hospitals of girls between the ages of twelve to fifteen years being
already pregnant, without knowing the sex relation, would never be met
with.[BS] Many of these girls have no adequate idea of the result of
congressus, because no one has told them.
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