Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical JurisprudenceTalmey, Bernard Simon
Science
Love: A Treatise on the Science of Sex-attraction: for the use of Physicians and Students of Medical Jurisprudence
Talmey, Bernard Simon
Sex
The girl who has chosen an intellectual pursuit has to be taught before
leaving home that the real ethics is the defense of all external
sex-values. Man is more than a mere sex-being. The spiritual kind
of virginity consists in the sensual affairs not being dominating,
exacting or filling the inner life. The Jewish philosopher, Philo
of Alexandria in Egypt, says: “The virgin, by her company with man,
becomes a woman, by the soul’s association with God, the woman becomes
again a virgin.” Such are the lessons the young girl should take
along, when she leaves home, so that she may be protected against the
doctrines of sensual hyperaestheticism of the modern writers.
The necessity of self-control and chastity must be impressed upon the
mind not only of the young woman but also of the young man. There is
not the slightest support in physiology for the double standard of
morality of the two sexes. Either men and women should be allowed to
lead a promiscuous sex-life,[CA] or what is by custom forbidden to the
woman should not be allowed to the man either.
But such lessons will have very little effect upon boys who have
passed childhood and puberty before they have had the opportunity of
receiving proper sex-instruction. Such boys need altogether another
kind of instruction, namely, lessons in personal prophylaxis. The
objection that to teach personal prophylaxis against venereal infection
would remove the most effective obstacle to sexual indulgence, i. e.,
the fear of infection, simply shows the ignorance of the elementary
force which indulgence in venery, once tasted, drives the boy into
the arms of prostitution, fear or no fear.[CB] The young man himself,
once defloured of his virginity, is of no concern any longer. All the
lessons in personal prophylaxis will not have the least influence upon
his conduct in life one way or another. But personal prophylaxis may
save his wife and children from a life of invalidism and even death.
The same procedure will be necessary in dealing with the young man
who is a congenital weakling and has to associate with meretricibus.
He should at least take care not to contract any venereal disease,
which may wreck the lives of his future wife and children. He should
immediately after coition, first wash with a cotton-sponge the
penis—head, shank and under-frenum—with a solution of sublimate 1:5000;
secondly pass water and make a urethral injection with a solution
of 2% protargol, and thirdly rub a 50% calomel ointment well into
the fore-skin, head and shank of the penis, particularly about the
frenum.[CC]
The best prophylaxis against masturbation, and in a certain degree
also against inchastity, is the coëducation of the sexes. The familiar
intercourse of boys and girls in the kindly presence of their teachers
prevents and appeases the morbid craving of the sex-appetite, provided
the pupils have not been morally tainted before they entered the
coëducational school.
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