The believers in Life, on the other hand, know that vital needs were
the productive soil of the feelings that gave the pith to those laws,
whereof now only the straw remains. But the earth has not exhausted
its powers of fertility, any more than the feelings have lost their
creative force. The believers in Life, therefore, attach small
importance to the old straw, but consider the increasing of the earth’s
productiveness of supreme significance.
A great and healthy will to live is what our time needs in the matter
of the erotic emotions and claims. It is here that there is a menace of
real dangers from the woman’s side; and it is, amongst other things, to
avert these dangers that new forms of marriage must be created.
A human material increasing in value and in capacity for
development—this is what the earth will produce. The chances of
obtaining this may be decreased under fixed, but favoured under freer,
forms of sexual life. It is not only because the present day demands
more freedom that these claims are full of promise. They are so
because the claims are coming nearer and nearer to the kernel of the
question—the certainty that love is the most perfect condition for
the life-enhancement of the race and of the individual—and because
the present time acknowledges the necessity of temporarily limiting
freedom, though only by means of laws which will form an education in
love.
Such a law must, for the sake of woman’s liberty, deprive man of
certain of his present rights; for the sake of the children, limit the
present liberty both of man and woman. But these limitations will all
be to the final profit of love.
Those who believe in the perfectibility of mankind for and through love
must, however, learn to reckon not in hundreds of years, and still less
in tens, but in thousands.
FOOTNOTES:
[1] Many of the facts in the foregoing pages are taken from a
detailed biographical pamphlet on Ellen Key by J. F. D. Mossel
in the series of _Mannen en Vrouwen von Beteekenis in Onze
Dagen_. The reader may be referred to an interesting account
of Ellen Key, from personal knowledge, by Miss Helen Zimmern,
in _Putnam’s Magazine_, Jan., 1908.
[2] In England, Tennyson, in _The Princess_, was the first to
give to “the new woman” her name and to speak of her objects,
and many others began in the middle of the last century
indirectly to develop the idea of love, especially Elizabeth
Barrett Browning, the sisters Brontë, and Miss Muloch among
women writers. Robert Browning, George Meredith, and other
great poets among the men have also furthered it indirectly.
In later days, George Egerton in _Rosa Amorosa_ and Edward
Carpenter in _Love’s Coming of Age_ have, in their different
ways, given a remarkable treatment of the evolution of love.
_Woman Free_ by Ellis Ethelmer, _A Noviciate for Marriage_ by
Edith M. Ellis, _The Woman Who Did_ by Grant Allen, belong to
the same group of writings.
[3] Walt Whitman.
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