Making the Most of LifeMiller, J. R. (James Russell)
Philosophy
Making the Most of Life
Miller, J. R. (James Russell)
Christian life
Friendship is another opportunity that offers great blessing. Before
every young person stand two kinds of friends, ever reaching out a
beckoning hand. The one class whisper of pleasures that lead to sin
and debasement. They offer the young man the wine-glass, the
gambling-table, the gratification of lust and passion. They offer the
young woman flattery, gay dress, the dance, pleasures that will tarnish
her womanly purity. We all know the end of such friendship.
But there is another class of friends who stand before young people,
wooing them to noble things. They may be plain, perhaps homely, almost
stern in their earnestness of purpose and in the seriousness with which
they talk of life. They call to toil, to diligence, to self-denial, to
heroic qualities of character, to purity, to usefulness, to "whatsoever
things are true, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are
honorable, whatsoever things are lovely." It is impossible to
overstate the value of the blessings that true, wise, and worthy
friendship offers to the young. It seeks to incite and stimulate them
to their best in character and achievement. It would lift them up to
lofty attainment, to splendid victoriousness. The young people to whom
comes the offer of such friendship are most highly favored.
But how often do we see the blessing rejected for the solicitation of
mere idle pleasures that bring no true good, that entangle the life in
all manner of complications, that lead into the ways of temptation, and
that too often end in disaster and sorrow.
There is a time for the choosing of friends, and when that time is
passed and the choice has been made, the door is shut. Then it is too
late to go back. There are many people in mid-life, bound now in the
chains of evil companionships, who would give all they have for the
sweet delights and pure pleasures of friendship which once might have
been theirs, which in youth reached out to them in vain white hands of
importunity and blessing. But it is too late; the door is shut.
So it is with the opportunities of doing good to others, comforting,
helping, cheering, lightening burdens, giving gladness and joy. We
stand continually before open doors which we do not enter. Ofttimes we
shrink with timid feeling from the sweet ministry, holding back the
sympathetic word or restraining ourselves from the doing of the gentle
kindness, thinking our proffer of love might be unwelcome. Or we do
not perceive the opportunity to give a blessing. This is true very
often, especially in the closer and more tender intimacies of life. We
do not recognize the heart-hunger in our loved ones, and we walk with
them day by day, failing to help them in the thousand ways in which we
might help them, until they are gone from us and the door is shut.
Then all we can do is to bear the pain of regret, having only the hope
that in some way in the life beyond, we may be able to pay--though so
late--love's debt.
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