Malay Magic: Being an introduction to the folklore and popular religion of the Malay PeninsulaSkeat, Walter William
Religion
Malay Magic: Being an introduction to the folklore and popular religion of the Malay Peninsula
Skeat, Walter William
Magic -- Malay Peninsula; Malays (Asian people) -- Folklore; Malays (Asian people) -- Social life and customs
"Plenty of money is necessary, because, by accepted custom, if the
relations yield and give their consent all the customary payments
are doubled; the fine for the trespass, which would ordinarily be
twenty-five dollars, becomes fifty dollars; the dower is likewise
doubled, and the usual present of clothes (salin) must consist of two
of each of the three garments (salendang, baju, kain), instead of one
as usual. The fine for panjat angkara may be of any amount, according
to the pleasure of the woman's relations, and they fix it high or low
according to the man's position. I have heard of one case in Pêrak,
where the fine was five hundred dollars, and another in which the
suitor, to obtain his bride, had to pay one thousand seven hundred
and fifty dollars, namely, one thousand two hundred and fifty dollars
as a fine, and five hundred dollars for the marriage expenses. But in
this case the girl was already betrothed to another, and one thousand
dollars out of the fine went to the disappointed rival.
"Sometimes the relations hold out, or the man, for want of one of
the three qualifications mentioned above, has to beat an ignominious
retreat. In the reign of Sultan Ali, one Mat Taib, a budak raja, or
personal attendant on the Sultan, asked for Wan Dêna, the daughter
of the Bandahara of Kedah (she then being at Kota Lama in Pêrak) in
marriage. Being refused he forced his way into the house, and seizing
the girl by her long hair drew his kris, and defied everybody. No
one dared to interfere by force, for the man, if attacked, would
have driven his kris into the girl's body. This state of things is
said to have lasted three days and three nights, during which the
man neither ate nor slept. Eventually he was drugged by an old woman
from whom he accepted some food or water, and when he fell asleep the
girl was released from his grasp and taken to the Sultan's palace,
where she was married off straightway to one Mat Arshad. Mat Taib had
his revenge, for within a year he amoked at Bandar, where Mat Arshad
lived, killing the latter and wounding Wan Dêna.
"Panjat 'adat is a less lawless proceeding. A man who is in love with
a girl, the consent of whose parents or relations he cannot obtain,
sends his kris to their house with a message to the effect that he
is ready with the dower, presents, etc., doubled according to custom,
and that he is ready to make good any demands they may make.
"The kris is symbolical of the violent entry, which in this case is
dispensed with. If the girl's guardians are still obdurate they send
back the kris, but with it they must send double the amount of the
dower offered by the man. [637]"
7. FUNERALS [638]
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