Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.Sanger, Margaret
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Margaret Sanger: an autobiography.
Sanger, Margaret
Birth control -- United States -- Biography; Sanger, Margaret, 1879-1966
He seemed greatly disturbed, and I was about to reply, but the Briton
rose to speak. “Of course she is, because she’s far superior. Why,
American men have nothing in common with the women. They are coarse,
blunt, crude, while the women are finely sensitive, exquisite, and
courteous. The man has nothing to give his wife but money; he comes home
at night and talks business, introduces into his home only friends who
will help him out financially, and when his wife discusses music, art,
or literature, he falls asleep and snores. That’s why she brings her
fortune into Europe for a husband. She finds her equal in the Frenchman,
the Italian, the Spaniard, but particularly in the Englishman. For every
Englishman is a gentleman, and every American woman is a lady!”
The German added a final convulsive note to the settlement of the woman
problem by adding, “Is it true the American husband not only washes the
dishes but pushes the perambulator?”
“Why, yes, he often does that.”
“That is terr-r-r-rrible,” he answered, the r’s rolling out, and his
hands clasped tight to his temples.
And at that we all departed for our rest. But a few days later one or
another of the quartet was demonstrated right. News came that my boat
was about to leave at once, and I sought out the Captain. At the first
intimation of my errand, he waved his hands and said, “No! No! No
women!”
I kept on talking until I made him admit he was interested in America,
in diet, and in population. When I found he was a reader of _Physical
Culture_ I produced my open sesame letter and again it was more potent
than a passport. I stood reasoning with him on the pier, until finally
he said, “There’s a rule to take no women. But you Americans are not
like others. I think I can put you in.” I was allowed to embark.
During the voyage we were most careful, anchoring at dusk, and when it
was light keeping sharp watch for floating mines which might have broken
loose from their moorings. It took us two nights and a day to make a
crossing that ordinarily occupied only nine or ten hours.
I had plenty of time to sort out my impressions and conclusions
regarding the birth control movement. They had been revolutionized. I
could no longer look upon it as a struggle for free speech, because I
now realized that it involved much more than talks, books, or pamphlets.
These were not enough.
Personal instruction had been proved to be the best method, and I
concluded clinics were the proper places from which to disseminate
information but also, admirable as they were in the Netherlands, they
ought not to be placed in the hands of unskilled midwives, social
workers, or even nurses. These could, of course, instruct after a
fashion, but only doctors had the requisite knowledge of anatomy and
physiology and training in gynecology to examine properly and prescribe
accurately.
I had a new goal, but how difficult and how distant its attainment was
to be I never dreamed.
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