Mediæval London, Volume 1: Historical & SocialBesant, Walter
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Mediæval London, Volume 1: Historical & Social
Besant, Walter
London (England) -- History -- To 1500; London (England) -- Social life and customs -- To 1500
Another anecdote to show the small consideration held for women. In the
year 1379 Sir John Arundel’s squadron, then at sea in the Channel, was
overtaken by a storm. There were on board the ships sixty women, some
of whom had gone with the sailors of their own accord, and others who
had been forcibly carried off. To lighten the ship, every one of these
wretched women was thrown into the sea and drowned.
The model _bourgeoise_ is set forth in “How the Good Wyf taugte hir
Dougter” (published by the E. E. Text Society in _The Babees Book_)
beginning
“The good wife taught hir daughter
Ful manye a time and ofte
A ful good woman to be:
And saide ‘Daughter to me dere,
Sum good thou must lere (learn)
If were thou wolt thee (thrive).”
The sum of her teaching is as follows: It is the aim of every woman to
become a wife, she must therefore carefully consider her actions. In
the first place, she must go to church every day and love God.
“Go to Church whanne thou may
Look thou spare for no reyn:
For thou farest best that ilke day
Whanne thou hast God y-seyn.
He must need weel thrive
That liveth weel all his life
My leef child.”
She must pay the church, dues; she must help the poor; in church she
must pray, beads in hand, neither chattering nor laughing; she must be
“of fair bearing and of good tongue.” If any man makes her an offer
of marriage, she is to receive him courteously, whoever he may be,
and must show the case to her friends, and she must not sit with him
in any place where a scandal might arise. When she marries a man she
must love him above all earthly things; she must answer him meekly;
she must be fair of speech, mild of mood, true in word and deed, of
good conscience. She must be of seemly semblance; she must not be loud
in laughter. In the street she must not brandish her head or shake
her shoulders; she must not swear; she must not gaze about in the
streets; she must not visit the tavern; she must take “measurably” of
the good ale; and must not get drunk. She must not go to see wrestlings
or cock-throwing like a strumpet—the ways of the class, one observes,
remain unchanged—they went to public shows then just as they go to the
Music Halls now. Again, if a strange man speaks to her in the street
she is to greet him and pass on; above all things she must not stand
and talk with him lest he tempt her with gifts. She is to govern her
household wisely and set everybody to work early; if need be, she
will work herself; she will see that when work is done things are put
away; on pay day she must administer the wages. She is not to envy her
neighbour’s fine attire, but to behave in a friendly spirit towards her
neighbours.
“It behoveth thee so for to do
And to do to them as thou woldist be doon to.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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