Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"You will be glad, I know, to hear from my own pen how we all
prosper, and I sincerely wish I had time enough to tell you all
I wish you to know of my various arrangements and avocations,
hopes and fears, wishes and successes. Of the latter I cannot
boast much; I am, however, much delighted to find that many
things which I expected would perplex me, and take more time
and thought than I should be willing to give them, do not
trouble me in the least degree,--such as household affairs,
eating, drinking, and keeping matters moving methodically. I
did not, to be sure, indulge anxiety about it, as from my utter
ignorance I had some reason to do; but I did not suppose it
possible that such a _young novice_ could be inducted into the
important station of housekeeper without suffering for a time a
degree of martyrdom. But thus far I get on easily, and hope to
learn by experience sufficient to meet future wants. My parish
matters have gone on so far just as I wished. I gave up all
last week to receiving visitors, and they came in just the
manner I wished, morning, noon, or evening, as might be most
convenient to themselves. It was the best way for me, for it
gave me a better opportunity of getting acquainted with their
looks, and they seemed to like it very much themselves. I am at
liberty now, but prefer staying at home, and still have enough
to do to say 'Welcome' to my friends.
"But this is all play-work in comparison with the other duties
that belong to my lot. They are just what I knew they would
be,--most delicate, most difficult, for one so utterly
ignorant; but I see the difficulties, and do not find them
greater than I have always known they would be; am neither
discouraged nor faint-hearted, but hope and trust that power
will yet be granted for all exigencies. I do not find myself as
much discomposed by the task as I expected, considering I have
had so little to do with children. But I do feel the importance
of the relation in which I stand to them more deeply, more
oppressively, than I could have conceived, and I am more than
ever certain that I have a great deal to learn, and a long work
before me. Do let me hear from you sometimes; we may not have
much communication at present, but, as the Quaker said, 'we can
meditate on each other.' I beg you to understand that I
consider myself one whose lot has more than a common share of
blessing, and daily and hourly do I thank God for guiding me to
this pleasant path. I find I shall realize all you promised me
of comfort, and much more too.
"Yours in sincerity.
"M. L. W."
* * * * *
"_Boston, July 22, 1827._
"DEAR NANCY:--
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