Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"Had I room, I could give you a long story about this, for my
mind is full of it. But I have another word to say upon the
fact of our giving so much time to the mere outside of life, to
the employment of our fingers, the mere mechanical employments
pertaining to the body. It is a question with me, whether it is
not a duty to be satisfied with a less elegant, and even a less
comfortable style of life, rather than take so much from the
cultivation of the intellectual and spiritual, when, as is so
often the case now-a-days, we must either do the drudgery
ourselves or leave it undone. I don't know,--I am puzzled. I
know that if we are doing our _duty_, however mean may be our
employment, we are fulfilling our destiny, and doing God the
best service. But the question is, What is our duty? And are we
not in danger of mistaking the real nature of duty, from too
great a love of this world and the things of it? This is one of
the difficult questions, which my husband and I try to settle.
I wish you would tell me what you think. And here comes my
Willie, with an imploring look to be taken up,--a reproving
one, too, that in all this long letter neither he nor his
family are so much as noticed. All are well.
"Yours ever.
"M. L. WARE."
Unusual freedom from sickness and apprehension was for a time enjoyed.
Mrs. Ware was full of happiness and thankfulness. "It seems to me that
never had people so much reason for gratitude as we; and I think I never
felt this more than at this time, for I too am beginning to have the
first feelings of health which I have known for a year and a half." But
a change came. And with the letter which explains it we close this
portion of the Cambridge life.
"_Cambridge, May 4, 1834._
"MY DEAR N----:
"... We have had our usual variety of sickness and health since
I wrote to you in January. Soon after that, I had a visit from
my old, and I thought conquered, enemy, the cramp; not a very
severe attack, but sufficient to make me very good for nothing
for a week, in the course of which Nanny had a very severe
fall, which for twenty-four hours made us apprehensive that we
should have to part with her. But this trial was spared us, in
much mercy; for two days after this, Elizabeth was very sick,
though not dangerously. All this had its effect upon Mr. Ware
and myself, and we have been the greater part of the time in
the most disagreeable state of betwixity, neither sick enough
to be excused from labor, nor well enough to do any thing
profitable,--just good for nothing. In the vacation in April,
Mr. Ware went to Portsmouth to collect materials for his Memoir
of Dr. Parker, intending by the way to go to Exeter.
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