Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"His own view of the case was a very reasonable one; and the
calmness with which he looked at the improbability of
recovery, was at once an aid and a source of high enjoyment to
me. A few weeks, however, gave us more encouragement; the
attack was not a severe one, and yielded readily to the
remedies applied. And although we could not but look forward to
a long confinement at that season of the year, there was much
in his state to give us pleasure. His mind is always, when he
begins to recover, in a very animated state, very active, and
upon the most entertaining subjects. This time he injured his
eyes by looking over newspapers and books, in the early part of
his illness; so that, as soon as my most arduous duties as
nurse ceased, I had to commence those of reader and amanuensis.
I never was so literary in my life. I did nothing but read and
write; nor have I done much else since, for he cannot yet do
either for himself. Thus passed ten weeks, a period equal to
our whole residence at Ware and Worcester; and yet, owing to
the difference of the season, he could not get out of his room
more than once or twice a week, when he was carried in arms to
a carriage. At this time, too, I sunk for a short term, not
with disease, but exhaustion from confinement and incessant
effort of some kind or other. I soon got rested; but whether
from the interruption which this caused to Henry's literary
employments, or because the time had come for a change, I know
not,--his own animation ceased, and he seemed in danger of
losing all his energy and strength for the want of air and
exercise. I had hoped that he would be sent to a warmer region
as soon as he had strength to get there, for air and exercise
are always essential to his recovery. But he dragged on, until
I was not willing to be submissive any longer; and I begged
that he might go to New York at least, for a city is so much
more protected than the country, that he could walk there in
weather that would have kept him in here. I went to New York
with him, but could not well stay; and as he was in a second
home there, it did not seem necessary. He came home just in
time to sit down by a fire during this long storm! It was most
unlucky, but cannot be helped. Were it possible, I would go off
with him as soon as the sun shines, to keep him from going to
work. I never say any thing is _impossible_, but it seems to me
next to it that I should leave home now. All my five children
are at home,--to say nothing of not having attended to any of
my domestic duties since last January;--a little sewing to be
done, you may fancy. Still, if it is _necessary_ to go, some
way of effecting it will present itself.
"Yours in all true love.
"MARY L. WARE."
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