Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Religion
Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
A change was approaching. The favored interval had been unusually long,
and an amount of work had been accomplished of which we attempt not to
give an idea. It had been to Mrs. Ware, as to her husband, a "golden
age," in vigor, labor, and enjoyment. In the family, the school, and the
community, both were busy, both happy. There was no diminution of care,
rather an increase with an increasing family, unnumbered visitors, and
interruptions, engagements, and claims, of every possible kind. But all
this went on easily and naturally. A casual observer would not be likely
to see that there was much done, or to be done. There was no hurry, no
apparent exertion. Each caller or claimant was received so quietly, and
listened to so patiently, that he might have thought he was the only
one, or the favored. To be sure, Mrs. Ware felt, as we have seen, that
there was no such thing as rest, nor time to do the half that she would.
But very few saw the feeling, and it prevented neither her own serenity
nor others' enjoyment. Very grateful did she feel for her husband's
continued health and active usefulness. At the same time, we can see
that her experienced eye and watchful heart discovered symptoms of
coming change,--as in passages of her letters of different dates.
"_December 31, 1841._ I look at my husband with a sort of
wonder, to find that another whole year has passed without any
serious consequences to his health. I dare not look forward for
him, for it seems presumption to expect that he can be long
exempt. His duties are very perplexing from their variety, and
I think the effect upon his system, by harassing his mind, is
really worse than a greater amount of labor would be upon a
more concentrated and satisfactory object. He is the greater
part of the time in that dragging, half-sick state, which
leaves neither freedom of mind nor comfort of body. I often
think he could be happier, and do in fact more good, in a
parish, than here; and were it not that men at his time of life
get to be too old-fashioned and 'conservative,' as the phrase
is, to suit the rising generation, I should hope he might yet
end his days in the vocation which he best loves. I would not
have you suspect me of a discontented spirit; but my heart
leaps at the idea of parish-meetings in my own parlor, and
other _pastoreen_ enjoyments. But I have no care about the
future, other than that which one must have,--a desire to
fulfil the duties which it may bring.
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