Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"_Boston, May, 1843._ My dear child: Father continued very much
as you left him, yesterday. He does not suffer as much as he
did, but his disease is a very tedious one, and it may be many
weeks before he is able to get home, if it pleases God still to
restore him to health. Let us pray to Him to look in mercy upon
us, and spare him to us yet longer. The circumstances of our
lot in life are just now very trying, and no doubt are arranged
for us in order to our improvement. It is a great trial to
father and me to be separated from our children so long; and to
you all, this separation brings the greater responsibility to
watch over yourselves, that you do in all things right,--not
what is most pleasant, not what we wish, but what is _right_ to
do, without regard to self. Next to my anxiety about father,
now, is my anxiety about you; because I feel that you are at an
age when the habits are formed, and the principles of action
settled for life; that your whole future, for time and for
eternity, may depend upon these years. And I cannot feel happy
unless I see you gaining from day to day more and more of that
self-discipline and self-control, which can alone, by the grace
of God, make you what you ought to be."
Mr. Ware was able to return to Framingham in June, and afterward took
several short journeys among friends, one as far as Plymouth, and thence
to Fall River (where his son was then settled in the ministry), and home
by Providence,--his last visit to those places. In August, another and
still more violent attack upon the brain prostrated him completely; and
the remaining five or six weeks of his life seemed only a vacillation
between earth and heaven,--yielding transporting glimpses of the latter,
but constantly drawing him back to the former,--and creating altogether
as hard a trial for the sufferer, and those around him, as can easily be
conceived.
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