Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"We came hither the last week in April, and find everything
pleasant, and every body kind. As far as I can yet see, I think
I anticipated very truly the pros and cons of the case, not
excepting my own incapacity for the employment. One would laugh
at the idea of a woman of forty-five doubting her capacity to
teach children their letters; but the intellectual is the least
part of the concern to my view, and I still think I have no
tact for the education of children. The little I can do for my
own is through the connection which nature has established, not
a power of my own acquisition. I have determined to try the
experiment for a year, and the result only can decide the
question of the expediency of pursuing it another year. I must
consider the good of my own children first, of course.... My
time is entirely filled, from early rising to very late
sitting. The only time I can take for writing is at night when
all are in bed, and I ought to be; for the constant bustle of
children wearies my head much.
"Yours, as ever, lovingly.
"M.L.W."
So far from mental infirmity or loss, the mind of Mrs. Ware was never,
we should say, more active or energetic than at this time, as soon as
she was wholly rested. It is obvious, indeed, that the growth of the
mind had kept pace in her, as in many, with the growth of the affections
and higher aspirations. In such a character and life, mental and
spiritual are nearly synonymous. The spiritual had been always in
exercise, sharply disciplined and expanded. And thus chiefly, thus only,
we may almost say, had she advanced mentally. For she was not a student.
No period of her life had permitted her to be an extensive or habitual
reader. Persons, and not books, events and experiences, were her study.
She lost no opportunity of direct instruction, but she made it
subservient, or rather concomitant, with other engagements and positive
duty. And no better mental discipline, perhaps, could she have had, in
connection with the communion she enjoyed with the best minds, and the
lessons of her lot. We see the effect, and the progress, continually.
There is a striking difference between her earlier and later letters. We
have felt, in fact, that injustice may have been done, in giving so many
of not only the early, but the unstudied and hurried, productions of one
so pressed and unpretending. But they all serve to show her as she was.
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