Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
Of Mrs. Ware's seven children, all, excepting the oldest son, made part
of the family circle, with occasional absences at school. To one of the
daughters who was absent most, there are many letters containing
well-defined thoughts on intellectual and moral discipline, and
disclosing more fully the fact of her own trials of temper in early
life, to which we have before alluded, but which many find it difficult
to believe. From these letters we take the passages that follow, the
first relating to a visit to Framingham.
"_Milton, October 1, 1844._ O, I did so enjoy being upon that
sacred spot, living over again, as we can scarcely do but by
the power of association, all the details of the holy time of
which that day was the anniversary! I felt that it strengthened
my faith and trust, that I could recall there something of the
gratitude which I felt when that weary spirit was just
emancipated. I had needed this; for as the cares and
responsibilities of life have pressed more and more upon me
every day I have since lived, their accumulated weight was
beginning to keep down and obscure that brighter vision which
faith then revealed. I had a delightful walk alone in the
woods, recalling the sweet words which I had had with dear
father when we strolled through those woods together. How
strong is the power of association! I found that particular
spots revived thoughts which he had uttered when there, which
perhaps I should never again have recalled, elsewhere."
* * * * *
"_October 18, 1844._ ... I have determined, as a fixed
principle, not to go beyond my income, for any thing short of
necessity, and it is a delicate question to settle what
necessity is. I choose to take it for granted that there never
can be a question in any of our minds, that taste is to be held
in subjection to principle, and I am not only willing, but
desirous, to indulge taste, _within that limitation_, to the
utmost bounds of my ability. I think a refined taste has an
indirect, but certain influence upon morals; and I never can
believe that one of my children will ever for an instant be
pained at any restraint put upon them by a necessity which God
has ordained.
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