Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
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Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
As the months advanced, Mrs. Ware was more and more occupied and active,
evidently feeling that her time was short. And yet we see none of that
anxiety about the future which such a conviction is apt to create, in
reference either to the present world or another. As regarded another
world, and her approach to it, we doubt if she ever felt the slightest
dread or unwillingness to go. Not from any sense of fitness or
self-sufficiency, but with the deepest humility there mingled the
firmest trust; and a trust that refused to separate the exercise of
justice from mercy, in God. She could trust the one as much as the
other, and she could not distrust either; but, assured that a perfectly
righteous and omniscient Being would do exactly that which was needful
for her purification and perfection, she rested there,--and left all
else. We say this of the peculiarity of her faith, if it be peculiar,
from personal knowledge of her mind on this point, and from her own
explicit declarations at a later day. And we refer to them at this time,
to say that the same convictions sustained and tranquillized her in
regard to the future of this life for those whom she was to leave
behind. From the earliest moment of the expectation or apprehension of
death, a mother's mind must turn strongly and fix intently on her
children. And to most mothers this is the great struggle. Who can
wonder? Who will reprove, even if the struggle be bitter, and the vision
dim? HE will not, who has given a parent's affections, and likened to
them his own. Many a mother, who could leave the world without a pang
for herself, will suffer and fear for her children. It is only the
highest faith that prevents all this suffering and fear. Such, we think,
was Mary Ware's. Not in commendation do we say it,--we know not that it
deserves that,--but as the simple fact, that while she was always
doubtful of her power to guard and train her children in the best way,
she never feared to leave them with God, in reference either to things
temporal or spiritual. Even when she could see no sufficient provision
for their temporal comfort, she seemed unable to believe that she was
essential to that comfort, or that her life would be better for them
than her death. She _knew_ that that would be best which God appointed.
Does not this belong to the highest faith? No one could induce her to
make any request, or express even a wish, as to future arrangements, the
outward condition or fortune of any child. Many wishes, many prayers,
did she offer for the inward condition and the spiritual preparation for
both worlds,--but only the spiritual. "I could write a sheet," she says
to a mother who was herself anxious,--"I could write a sheet upon the
text your letter gives me, with regard to the preparation of our
children for life. But I can only say, Why should we feel anxious for
them when we are gone? Do we not see that the finest characters are
those which are formed by the necessity of acting for themselves?" And
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