Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Religion
Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
But if she could not or did not talk much, in the way of solace, she
wrote freely; and her letters, though not original or remarkable, are
drawn from the depths of experience and faith. We offer none entire, but
only the parts that indicate her manner of urging upon others the great
truths and principles on which she herself relied. The extracts that
follow are not all of one character, but such as were called forth by
different experiences near the same time,--all showing the serious cast
of her own thoughts, and her deepening interest in others' moral
condition. The first was written to her son in the ministry.
* * * * *
"_February 9, 1846._ Dear John: Oh! you are but just beginning
to know what life truly is in its solemn discipline. The great
book of religious experience is now but opening to you; and,
believe me, you will find in it treasures of happiness of which
the heart of man _cannot_ conceive without such experience. You
say you feel something of 'fear' coming over you. I will not
say, put away all apprehension; uncertainty does hang over you,
but let it not produce fear. I would advocate a courageous
contemplation of possibilities, for in this way, I believe, the
benefits of all trial may be made greater. But let it be with a
quiet trust and hopefulness, such as we as Christians have a
right to feel; let it be with a steady faith, that whatever God
permits has a beneficent end and object, kindly to aid us in
the great work for which we were placed in this world of
trial,--the preparation of our souls for that spiritual life
which may be lived even while we are still in this world. Does
not our Father love us with a perfect love? Does he not know
better than we can what is best for us? Has he not power to
fulfil all his designs of good for us,--and shall we not, if
with childlike faith in that love and power we surrender our
will to his, find a peace which cannot be moved? I was once
most forcibly checked in some fruitless attempt to obtain peace
under great difficulties, upon false principles, by happening
upon these verses of Watts (I believe):--
'Is resignation's lesson hard?
On trial we shall find
It makes us give up nothing more
Than anguish of the mind.
Believe, and all the ills of life
That moment we resign,' &c.
And I never find myself trying to argue myself into
acquiescence to any dispensation by reasons other than those
implied in these lines, that they do not rise to my memory as a
rebuke. But still the struggle,--O, that struggle is great, and
we must not be discouraged that we find it so; that is part of
the discipline. Strength comes by effort; and only think what
precious teaching this is for _your_ work."
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