Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Religion
Memoir of Mary L. Ware, Wife of Henry Ware, Jr.
Hall, Edward B. (Edward Brooks)
Unitarians -- United States -- Biography; Ware, Mary L. (Mary Lovell), 1798-1849
"_January 26, 1847._ Well, it was an event for me to go to
Exeter. All my associations with the place are of the most
interesting kind. All the romance of my youth was connected
with it; my first knowledge of your father was during his
residence there, through the medium of the admiration of that
brilliant circle of young ladies, in whose society he found
poetical inspiration. It was the home and the death-place of
the first specimen of the highly intellectual and spiritual
form of humanity that I had ever known intimately, in the
person of your father's dear friend, John E. Abbot; and the
very name of Exeter was sacred to me, from its connection with
the daily details of his last sickness, which I received from
Mrs. P----, then residing in her Aunt Abbot's family. I had
been there, however, only once, twenty years ago with your
father, when together we visited John Abbot's grave, and gave
ourselves up to the emotions connected with his memory. You may
believe that it was with no common feelings that I went alone,
upon such an errand, to that spot. The sense of my sole
responsibility in the care of my children presses upon me at
all times; but it bore with peculiar power at that time and at
that place, reminded, as I could not but be, how little
qualified I was to decide the question, in comparison with a
father's knowledge and experience."
* * * * *
"_February 2._ ... This has been an intensely interesting day to
me. What a thing is this _gift_ of life,--this strange, first
union of the spiritual and the material! How closely such an
event brings one near to the great Origin of all, and in what
an interesting, affecting relation! The tender Father, watching
over, protecting, sustaining, a feeble, mortal child in the
greatest work of creation, the introduction of a new heir of
immortality to the path which is to lead it to receive its
inheritance!"
* * * * *
"_March 3._ ... Do not for a moment lose sight of your dear
father's example. He was what he was, not by the bestowment of
great natural powers, but by the religious industry with which
he used his powers, the high standard of moral and religious
character at which he aimed, the disinterested devotion with
which he labored for others' good. _He cultivated his
conscience_, and by its light he cultivated his intellect;
marking out for himself that path in life in which he felt
himself most likely to be useful. And this was the secret of
his great success. He was willing to do any thing he could; and
he regulated that 'could' by the most unwearied industry. What
cannot one do, with such a lever?"
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