Memoirs of Sarah, Duchess of Marlborough, and of the Court of Queen Anne Vol. 2 (of 2)Thomson, A. T., Mrs.
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Memoirs of Sarah, Duchess of Marlborough, and of the Court of Queen Anne Vol. 2 (of 2)
Thomson, A. T., Mrs.
Great Britain -- Court and courtiers -- Biography; Marlborough, Sarah Jennings Churchill, Duchess of, 1660-1744
The Duchess of Montague, (Lady Mary Churchill, the youngest of her
grace’s daughters,) like her eldest sister Henrietta, lived in constant
altercation with her mother, whom she survived; the only one of her
children whom the Duchess did not follow to the grave. The character of
the Duke of Montague, and the honours which he received, have been
before mentioned. The Duchess mingled greatly in the world; her concerts
and assemblies are mentioned frequently in the letters of Lady Mary
Wortley. Her daughter Isabella, Duchess of Manchester, by her sweetness
of temper and superior qualities, fastened herself upon the affections
of that heart where so few could find a place.
Such are some of the details which relate to the domestic troubles of
the aged Duchess. Her frequent absence from her children when they were
young; the absorbing nature of political pursuits, for which she
sacrificed the blessings of affection, and the enjoyment of a peaceful
home; the consequent necessity of consigning her children wholly to
instructors and servants; perhaps, too, the manners of the times, which
conduced to banish love between parent and child by a harsh, unnatural
substitution of fear as the principle of conduct;[350] all contributed
to alienate those young minds from her, whilst yet the angry passions
which maturity draws forth were unknown. Consistency, impartiality, and
a freedom from selfishness, are the qualities essential to win back the
filial affection of which nature has implanted the germ in every bosom
if, unhappily, it be destroyed. The Duchess was not only totally
deficient in these attributes, but she possessed not that easy and
kindly temper which can secure affection, even if it fail to command
respect. In her family, notwithstanding all their advantages of person
and fortune, she was singularly unfortunate; and she affords a striking
instance of the incompatibility of a political career with the habits
and feelings of domestic life. It cannot be, therefore, a matter of
surprise that her latter days were clouded by depression; that she found
herself neglected, and that she hovered between a state of irritated
pride, and that condition of low spirits in which we fancy ourselves of
no importance to the world, and as well out of it as cumbering the
ground. Often, describing herself as generally very “ill and very
infirm,” she declares that life has ceased to have any charms for her;
that she only wishes “to make the passage out of it as easily as
possible.” To her correspondent, Mr. Scrope, from whom she declares she
received more civility than she had met with for years, the Duchess
partially discloses her feelings. He seems kindly, and we hope with no
interested motive, to have entered into the feelings of a morose old
woman, who had placed all her felicity in a consciousness of importance,
and who found herself “insignificant.”[351] A few short years
previously, and who would have anticipated such a confession? Yet the
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