Memoirs of Sarah, Duchess of Marlborough, and of the Court of Queen Anne Vol. 2 (of 2)Thomson, A. T., Mrs.
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Memoirs of Sarah, Duchess of Marlborough, and of the Court of Queen Anne Vol. 2 (of 2)
Thomson, A. T., Mrs.
Great Britain -- Court and courtiers -- Biography; Marlborough, Sarah Jennings Churchill, Duchess of, 1660-1744
As a wife and as a mother, the Duchess stands not pre-eminently high.
She was born for the public, and to the public she was devoted. Her
sentiments of patriotism, however commendable, would have been well
exchanged for duty to her husband, and patient affection for her
children. Her gross partiality to some of her grandchildren, in
preference to others, revealed the source of her misfortunes as a
mother. Wherever such a noxious fungus as injustice grows within the
domestic sphere, peace and affection take their leave. Hence those
divisions which the possession of a large fortune in the hands of a
family entails upon the junior branches, among whom there is not the
foundation of a happy confidence. The precise sources of those
irritating bickerings does not appear in the published correspondence
relating to the domestic concerns of the Duke and Duchess of
Marlborough; but it is too probable that the miserable dissensions
between his wife and daughters, which embittered the Duke’s life,
originated in jealousies on pecuniary matters.
In what is commonly termed purity of morals, the character of the
Duchess of Marlborough has descended to posterity without a stain.
Whatever direction the calumnies of the day may have taken in that
respect, their influence was ephemeral. No historian of respectability
has dared to attach a blemish to the purity of her lofty deportment. She
esteemed the probity, and she was powerfully influenced by the sterling
sense, of Lord Godolphin; but her attachment was in no degree greater
than that of the Lord Treasurer’s affectionate friend, her husband. No
similar aspersion with respect to any other individual appears in the
lampoons of the day. In a moral sense, in so far as it comprises the
purity of a woman’s conduct, the Duchess is therefore unimpeached. She
was in that respect worthy of being the wife of the great hero who
worshipped her image in absence, with the romantic devotion of love,
unabated even by indifference. But when we speak of female excellence,
to that one all-important ingredient must be added others, without which
a mother, a wife, and a friend, cannot be said to fulfil her vocation.
Sweetness, forbearance, humanity, must grace that deportment, in the
absence of which virtue extorts with difficulty her need of praise. The
lofty temper which could scarcely be restrained in the presence of the
staid and decorous Queen Mary, expanded into acts of fury, when time and
unlimited dominion over her sovereign and her husband had soured that
impetuous spirit into arrogance.
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