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We must now say a few words about Strutt’s domestic and family life in
the latter part of his career. In 1773 he had the misfortune to lose
his wife, a loss that was irreparable to him, as she had been not only
a devoted helpmate and companion to him, but a most excellent mother to
their children. She died while with him on one of his many journeys to
London which he made about this time. She is buried in Bunhill Fields.
We give here an extract from one of Jedediah’s letters to his children
after their mother’s death:—
“At present I feel so bewildered and so lost so wanting, some how or
other so but half myself that I can scarce believe things to be in
the manner they are indeed it is impossible for me to describe or
you to imagine how I feel. I doubt not every repetition of this kind
will affect you but it will wear off especially in minds young as
yours are. Other objects will make their impressions but you I trust
will never forget your dear mother who loved you so well I hope you
will always retain much of her goodness of temper disposition and
affection; that you will imitate the example she has set you of virtue
of goodness of benevolence and kindness for they are most amiable
virtues and that you will study the same sentiments of sobriety
temperance diligence frugality industry and economy that you observed
in her. Your own recollection will bring to your minds so many things
that were to be found in her worth your attention that I need not here
enumerate them.”
The bereaved husband, owing to his business in London, and perhaps
also to his own feelings, did not return to his family till November.
The children, of whom William, the eldest, was only seventeen years of
age, by their letters at any rate show how well they had been brought
up. Having only one servant, a great deal of the work in the house had
to be done by them, and we have proof also that both William and his
sisters were making themselves of use in some of the office work of
their father’s business. It is interesting, too, to find how careful
their parents were in impressing upon them the importance of learning
French, and to note even in their letters what trouble they took to
obtain proficiency in that language.
In the letter to his son, from which we are about to make a few
extracts, we can see how Jedediah felt the disadvantage of the rather
humble and imperfect education and of the illiterate society he had
had in early life, and was determined if possible to do his utmost to
prevent his children suffering in the way he had suffered.
“London August 4th 1774
“My dear Billy
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