Another relative, who wanted him to speak at her house, for a reduced
price, did not secure him.
She wished, after the fashion of women, to give her guests a real
treat—ice-cream and flowers as well as an address from Crawford—cutting
down his fee to pay for the rest of the entertainment. I regret to say
that her point of view is quite common among clubwomen. The secretary
will naïvely ask you to come for a low price because the ladies wish to
give ice-cream to their guests. It does not seem to occur to them that
in this case it is the lecturer who pays for the refreshments!
It is—or was, for we will hope the bad custom is dying away—common for
clubs to exact, whenever they can, cut prices from their women speakers,
on the plea of their small means—and then end up the year with some very
expensive man whose fee is _not_ subject to curtailment.
After my mother reached the age of seventy her birthday was always
celebrated by family and friends as a joyous occasion. The house was
transformed into a veritable bower of flowers, the fitting expression of
the beautiful affection by which she was surrounded.
A lady from the West was invited, with her son, to one of these
receptions. She endeavored to impress upon him, beforehand, the
importance of the occasion when “we shall see all the _élite_ of
Boston.” The day was rainy, and in the confusion of many umbrellas, that
of the Western couple was mislaid.
“Ah, mother, the _élite_ got the better of us that time!” said her son.
In 1893 we all greatly enjoyed the Chicago World’s Fair, in spite of the
fact that I had my pocket picked and that my oldest son had a very
serious time with his eyes, which were half-blinded by the glare. My
mother was so deeply interested in it, and especially in the parliaments
connected with it, that she forgot about her lame knee. When she
returned home this took its revenge, depressing her usually buoyant
spirits.
Sister Maud, remembering our mother’s perennial interest in women’s
clubs, invented the “Papeterie” as a restorative.
Its object, as the name implies, was an exchange of paper-covered
novels. The members took these home to read, giving a report at the
following meeting. We occasionally had musical, artistic, and dramatic
programs. Our most serious undertaking was the writing of a novel, to
which each member contributed a chapter. It was full of dash and
adventure, but remains buried in the archives of the club. Our great
modesty forbade the seeking of a publisher. We had a great deal of
delightful fun and nonsense at our meetings. Our mother, with her wit
and gaiety, was the moving spirit of the little club. She seldom missed
a meeting, but when she did we were like salt that has lost its savor.
The merriment which came so easily in her presence, faded and died away!
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