Poor Mrs. Carlyle was much to be pitied, not for any wrong that he did
her, but because she was one of those people who make themselves wretched
and pass on their misery to those near them. My aunt was one of those
sympathetic people to whom others carry their troubles, and Mrs. Carlyle
spared her not a moan. Carlyle’s self-reproaches after her death were a
delusion, born of her own shrewish complaints, which in his sorrow he
schooled himself into believing to be well founded. That she was not
an easy woman to live with is shown by the fact that she had been just
as cantankerous with her mother at home as she was afterwards with her
husband. Her letters to him are the witnesses of that.
In society Mrs. Carlyle certainly shone. Her conversation was bright,
witty and stimulating, but when she went home to the privacy of her
journal, thanks to Froude’s indiscretion, we see another woman. She was
ready enough to accept favours and hospitality from great people; then
she would hie back to Cheyne Row and write down little petty unkindnesses
about them.
To a house where she had been received with much cordiality she was
invited with other friends to go and see the bridal trousseau of one of
the daughters; out comes the journal, and with fluent pen she gives her
friends full measure of spiteful satire because the linen is marked with
a coronet. Perhaps she would have found equal fault had the coronet been
omitted. She was in her inmost heart a discontented woman in whom the
milk of human kindness had been turned sour by praise that was not always
destined for her alone, and she had been much encouraged by her friend
Miss Jewsbury, the novelist, a very clever woman whom I sometimes met and
did not like.
Much is said in Froude’s volumes about Mrs. Carlyle’s beauty. When I knew
her she was an elderly, even an old woman, but I could see no trace of
good looks—and people who had known her when she was young laughed at
the idea. However, love is blind, and in Carlyle’s eyes she was all that
is beautiful. If it be true that in her youth she had so many suitors,
it must have been her wit, and perhaps the _beauté du diable_, that
attracted them.
When the end came in 1881 and the lovable wise old man died full of
honour, Chelsea, and yet not Chelsea alone, mourned his loss. It was sad
to think that we should never again see the lonely, pathetic figure in
his long brown coat and soft hat slouching along swiftly, stick in hand,
with his peculiar shuffling gait. His face was a picture of hale old
age with its ruddy cheeks streaked like a russet apple, and his strong
white hair and crisp beard. It was a figure that might have stepped out
of a painting by Raeburn, a thing of the past with a nobility which was
all its own—the sturdy, rugged independence of the northern peasant.
Everybody in the Village of Palaces knew him, and everybody was proud of
him.
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