Plato said, Women are the same as men in faculty, only less in degree.
But the general voice of mankind has agreed that they have their own
strength; that women are strong by sentiment; that the same mental height
which their husbands attain by toil, they attain by sympathy with their
husbands. Man is the will, and Woman the sentiment. In this ship of
humanity, Will is the rudder, and Sentiment the sail: when Woman affects
to steer, the rudder is only a masked sail. When women engage in any
art or trade, it is usually as a resource, not as a primary object. The
life of the affections is primary to them, so that there is usually no
employment or career which they will not with their own applause and that
of society quit for a suitable marriage. And they give entirely to their
affections, set their whole fortune on the die, lose themselves eagerly
in the glory of their husbands and children. Man stands astonished at
a magnanimity he cannot pretend to. Mrs. Lucy Hutchinson, one of the
heroines of the English Commonwealth, who wrote the life of her husband,
the Governor of Nottingham, says, “If he esteemed her at a higher rate
than she in herself could have deserved, he was the author of that
virtue he doted on, while she only reflected his own glories upon him.
All that she was, was _him_, while he was hers, and all that she is now,
at best, but his pale shade.” As for Plato’s opinion, it is true that,
up to recent times, in no art or science, nor in painting, poetry or
music, have they produced a masterpiece. Till the new education and
larger opportunities of very modern times, this position, with the fewest
possible exceptions, has always been true. Sappho, to be sure, in the
Olympic Games, gained the crown over Pindar. But, in general, no mastery
in either of the fine arts—which should, one would say, be the arts of
women—has yet been obtained by them, equal to the mastery of men in the
same. The part they play in education, in the care of the young and the
tuition of older children, is their organic office in the world. So much
sympathy as they have makes them inestimable as the mediators between
those who have knowledge and those who want it: besides, their fine
organization, their taste and love of details, makes the knowledge they
give better in their hands.
But there is an art which is better than painting, poetry, music, or
architecture,—better than botany, geology, or any science; namely,
Conversation. Wise, cultivated, genial conversation is the last flower of
civilization and the best result which life has to offer us,—a cup for
gods, which has no repentance. Conversation is our account of ourselves.
All we have, all we can, all we know, is brought into play, and as the
reproduction, in finer form, of all our havings.
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