Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
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Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
“My personal opinion,” observed the Professor (I always accept this
form of approach as a great concession), “is that she loses more than
she gains by these conditions. It is generally believed that during the
past century, particularly during the past half-century, woman, and
especially the American woman, has been selecting more definitely than
at any previous time in the history of civilized society. One result
of the habit of a more specific selection on the part of woman is a
decrease in the number of early marriages among women in circles or
classes where these ideas prevail, and a general increase in the whole
number of unmarried women. It may be that a further development of this
instinct will still further increase the proportion of the unmarried,
unless custom shall so far modify the arrangement of marriages that
women may more equally participate in the selection without, as at
present, exciting the antipathy of society, or, as you have suggested,
destroying her prestige under the partnership. There is, of course, no
final reason why matrimonial partnerships should not be arranged upon a
basis of as perfect equality as any other partnership. It simply is a
question of instinct on the one hand and expediency on the other.”
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I quote the Professor’s opinions here with especial gratification,
since in this instance they seem triumphantly free from sex bias,--a
freedom which, indeed, is a growing trait with women. And there is
something not always comfortable in the sign. Is the time coming when
we no longer can say, “Just like a woman”?
Perhaps we may discover that sentiment has more to do with the case
than has been supposed. If the progress of education has menaced
sentiment, who shall say that the greatest of sentiments may not be the
first to suffer? Nothing is truer than that all women are not equally
capable of sentiment. Some women seem to like the symbol of an emotion
quite as well as if it were the genuine article. To them the innocuous
make-believe of love is quite as satisfactory as the real thing. They
play with a great sentiment as they used to play with their dolls,
which gave much less trouble than real children and furnished just
as much sentimental excitement as if they actually had been alive. I
suppose this is particularly true of imaginative women, who know how
to drape their souls in nun’s garb and let their fancy play the devil.
Their character is illustrated by the modern fashion which permits them
to wear gowns sombre to superficial observation, but which, you may
have the opportunity to discover, possess a riotously crimson lining.
What is to happen to the world if women are to acquire a fondness for
the mere symbols of sex, if femininity is to become disembodied, is
a vast and vital question which prudence well might refer to one of
their own eager and tireless committees.
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