Miss Beecher's Housekeeper and Healthkeeper: Containing Five Hundred Receipes for Economical and Healthful Cooking; also, Many Directions for Securing Health and HappinessBeecher, Catharine Esther
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Miss Beecher's Housekeeper and Healthkeeper: Containing Five Hundred Receipes for Economical and Healthful Cooking; also, Many Directions for Securing Health and Happiness
Beecher, Catharine Esther
Cooking; Home economics
But the practice of early rising has a relation to the general
interests of the social community, as well as to that of each distinct
family. All that great portion of the community who are employed
in business and labor find it needful to rise early; and all their
hours of meals, and their appointments for business or pleasure,
must be accommodated to these arrangements. Now, if a small portion
of the community establish very different hours, it makes a kind of
jostling in all the concerns and interests of society. The various
appointments for the public, such as meetings, schools, and business
hours, must be accommodated to the mass, and not to individuals.
The few, then, who establish domestic habits at variance with the
majority, are either constantly interrupted in their own arrangements,
or else are interfering with the rights and interests of others. This
is exemplified in the case of schools. In families where late rising
is practiced, either hurry, irregularity, and neglect are engendered
in the family, or else the interests of the school, and thus of the
community, are sacrificed. In this and many other matters, it can be
shown that the well-being of the bulk of the people is, to a greater or
less extent, impaired by this self-indulgent practice. Let any teacher
select the unpunctual scholars—a class who most seriously interfere
with the interests of the school—and let men of business select those
who cause them most waste of time and vexation, by unpunctuality; and
it will be found that they are generally among the late risers, and
rarely among those who rise early. Thus, late rising not only injures
the person and family which indulge in it, but interferes with the
rights and convenience of the community; while early rising imparts
corresponding benefits of health, promptitude, vigor of action, economy
of time, and general effectiveness, both to the individuals who
practice it and to the families and community of which they are a part.
CHAPTER XIII.
DOMESTIC MANNERS.
Good manners are the expressions of benevolence in personal
intercourse, by which we endeavor to promote the comfort and enjoyment
of others, and to avoid all that gives needless uneasiness. It is the
exterior exhibition of the divine precept, which requires us to do to
others as we would that they should do to us. It is saying, by our
deportment, to all around, that we consider their feelings, tastes, and
conveniences, as equal in value to our own.
Good manners lead us to avoid all practices which offend the taste
of others; all unnecessary violations of the conventional rules of
propriety; all rude and disrespectful language and deportment; and all
remarks which would tend to wound the feelings of others.
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