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"Who are what?" Miss Gibbie's eyes met Mrs. Burnham's steadily.
"Unfaithful? And why? Oh, I know some men should be burned up
like garbage taken from the kitchen door, but I'm talking now of
the man who starts right, starts loving his wife. If there's anything
in him she can make more. The more may not be much, but it's better
than the less."
"But how?"
"My dear madam"--the turkey-wing fan made broad and leisurely
strokes backward and forward--"you and asking me concerning that
with which I have no experience, merely an opinion. I never felt
equal to assuming the responsibility of a man, not was I sure the
reward was worth the effort. But listen!" The fan stopped. "Had I
been willing to marry I should have felt the blame and shame were
mine had I not kept the love my husband gave me and increased it
with time."
Mrs. Burnham leaned forward. Her hands unconsciously clasped tightly.
"Tell me," she said, "how can one do it?"
"In what way, you mean? How should I know? Besides, it would
depend on how much the wife loved her husband, how much she
wanted to keep his love. The ways would be as varied as the types
of man to be dealt with. I've never seen a man who valued anything
he got too easily, anything that held itself cheap, and the woman
who doesn't inspire some reverence--"
"But you said just now the woman ought to tell her husband how
much she loved him."
"Did I? I thought I said she ought to tell him she loved him. Men
love to pursue. Something still to be won, something that may be
lost, is something he should never forget. Neither should she. I did
say just now a man could stand a full amount of praise. I've known
good husbands made of mighty unpromising material. A woman of tact
and judgment can do much with little. I've seen them do it."
She leaned back in her chair, and in her keen gray eyes was a
gleam of the gay twinkle of her youth.
"It isn't bad judgment to make a man believe he is something. He
is by nature inclined to it, and a little encouragement is good for
most people. So is a better understanding. Most miserable marriages
come from misunderstanding, with pride and stubbornness as its cause.
I once know a girl, a very wealthy girl, whose health failed shortly
after she married. Her husband was young, gay, selfish. Got to leaving
her, and she was too proud to let him see she cared. He thought she
didn't care, thought her absorbed in herself. One night, coming in late,
he saw a light in her room and called good-night on the way to his. She
had kept the light, a gas-lamp, by her side, hoping he would come in.
There was something she wanted to say, so she wrote in the note she
left, but when he passed by she wrote the note, turned her face to the
lamp, put out the light and turned on the gas. The next morning they
found the note in her hand."
Mrs. Burnham drew in her breath. "How horribly he must have felt!"
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