Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one manBlack, Alexander
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Modern daughters : $b Conversations with various American girls and one man
Black, Alexander
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
“Seriously,” demanded Miss Rittingway, “at what age do you consider a
woman to be at her best?”
“At the age when she meets the man who falls in love with her.”
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“Mrs. Rudderson is one of those women who always seem to find it easy to
vindicate their age. But I shall ask you another question. You see, there
was something about the girl’s family which the girl should have told
to any one whom she was to marry, and when the engagement actually was
fixed, Mrs. Rudderson found that the girl had neither the courage nor
the character to tell it. Mrs. Rudderson herself would have felt bound to
tell it to any one but Crimwell. You can see how telling it to Crimwell
would look. Even Crimwell must have known that Mrs. Rudderson was in love
with him. What do you think Mrs. Rudderson should have done?”
“She should have told Crimwell.”
“She didn’t. She couldn’t. The thing which should have been told was
nothing against the girl, and Mrs. Rudderson gave her a handsome wedding
last June.”
“That is typical realism,” I said, “perhaps typical life; for there is
no hero, no villain, a heroine who should have known better, and an
_ingénue_ without a conscience; and as for living happily ever after—”
“Oh, I believe the match will be a great success! And Mrs. Rudderson is
to marry Senator Wrensel. I saw her at Newport and she was looking her
best.”
“That is what I like about the modern woman. She is so beautifully
adjustable. To be sure, it has been the office of women from the
beginning to acquire adjustability, and every uncynical person has
resented the demands which have been made on this quality. But the modern
woman, in a greater degree than any of her predecessors, enjoys the
graces of chance, knows how to turn defeat into victory. She can marry
the wrong man and never even let him know it. She can marry the right
man and not upset him by making that too plain either. She can elude
marriage altogether and make that seem not merely manifest destiny but
a triumph of beneficent fate. She can be self-respectingly married and
enchantingly single—”
Miss Rittingway checked me with a look.
“A man,” she said, “not only is greatly hampered in his view of these
things, but he always appears to resent a woman’s ability to dominate
social circumstances. It really distresses him to find that his
initiation is not a finality, to discover that her last word is more
potent than his first.”
“A cruel tirade,” I declared, “when I was only expressing my admiring
astonishment or something of that import. As for her last word, even when
you don’t say it—”
At this I saw the Judge coming back. “Judge,” I called down to him,
“Miss Rittingway was just saying that she would like to have from you a
judicial opinion on chaperons.”
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