That the Prophet, as was only natural, allowed himself a wider
latitude of encounters than was granted to his adherents--who might
espouse only four women, but might also form liaisons “without
antecedent ceremony or any guarantee of continuance” with any number
of female slaves--was made clear by Ayesha. “I was jealous of the
women who gave themselves to the apostle of God,” she admitted,
“and said, ‘Does a woman give herself?’ Then when God revealed:
‘Thou mayst decline for the present whom thou wilt of them, and thou
mayst take to thy bed her whom thou wilt, and whomsoever thou shalt
long for of those thou shalt have before neglected; and this shall
not be a crime in thee.’ I said, ‘I see your Lord does nothing but
hasten to fulfil your desire!’” Yet due allowance should be made
for Ayesha’s jealousy; for, while Mohammed married approximately
twelve women, she was the only virgin among them--the others were
widows or divorcees who commonly brought him wealth or desirable
political connections. For indeed, though he once playfully chided
a Moslem who had married a mature woman instead of a “young damsel,
who would have sported with thee, and thou with her,” he was too
canny to follow his own counsel. At the same time, he preferred
women of spirit; in fact, he definitely rejected one girl because
“she never cried or complained”--a criticism that certainly could
not be aimed against most of his brides.
Khadija was barely under ground when the Prophet prepared to embark
boldly upon matrimonial seas. About two months later he married
Sauda, a tall, corpulent, mature widow whose brother celebrated the
event by sprinkling ashes on his head; he synchronously engaged
himself to Abu Bekr’s daughter Ayesha, whom he eventually espoused
at the age of ten; but it has been suggested that “there may have
been something more than ordinarily precocious about the child.”
She herself attributed her hold on Mohammed’s affections not only
to her childish beauty, but to her plumpness. “When I was betrothed
to the Prophet,” she related, “my mother endeavored to make me fat;
and she found that with me nothing succeeded so well as gourds and
fresh dates. Eating well of them I became round”; yet, as she grew
up, she lost her flesh and became thin and willowy. In 624 Omar
found himself with Hafsa, a widowed daughter of twenty, upon his
hands. Irritated and scandalized by her exhaustive but fruitless
endeavors to win a second husband, he offered her in turn to Othman
and Abu Bekr, who, knowing that she inherited her father’s cranky
temper, refused to accept the honor. Omar was so insulted by this
double rebuff that he at once flew angrily to Mohammed to make a
complaint. The Prophet, at his wit’s end because of the social
uproar that had been started, saved the situation by marrying Hafsa
himself, and thus abundantly gratified his wish to have a wife
who cried and complained all the time. Zeinab, widow of one of
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