Christian life -- Juvenile fiction; Girls -- Conduct of life -- Juvenile fiction; Grandmothers -- Juvenile fiction
"But though it is sad to think of the little babies dying, they are
really better off than many of the little girls who are left to grow up.
For there is a cruel custom in China of squeezing the feet of little
girls up tight, by means of a bandage--so"--and Hope Daverel picked up a
strip of calico, and deftly bound up her left hand to illustrate her
words--"until it hurts most dreadfully. Of course, the little girl
cries with the pain, but no one pities her, and in a few days it is
unbound, and done up tighter still. Sometimes a mother will take a big
stick to bed with her, in order to beat the child if she screams with
the awful pain. I wonder how _you_ would like that?"
The young missionary paused a moment, and looked down enquiringly into
the young faces before her, which expressed horror at the recital of
China’s woes.
"Well, the poor feet have to go on being squeezed smaller and smaller,
until after about two years they are considered small enough to be
pretty! Oh! girls, you who love pretty things, think of it an ugly lump,
without any shape, tiny enough to totter about in shoes like this," and
Miss Daverel held up a wee Chinese shoe. "This is a full-sized shoe for
a lady, and it only measures two inches and a half! This pair has been
actually worn by a woman belonging to one of my classes, and she gave
them to me on purpose to bring home and show to you. A girl’s chances of
getting married depend entirely upon the smallness of her feet: they do
not trouble at all about whether she is clever, or handsome or good.
And she is married, often, as young as six months old! and is taken away
from her own mother, to go and live with the mother of the little boy,
or lad, who is her husband. It is difficult for you English girls to
imagine such a state of affairs; but unless you know _something_ about
them, you cannot do much towards helping your Chinese sisters. Once they
are married, the poor girls have a very, very dull life, if they are
fortunate enough to escape ill-treatment from their husbands. One of
the first questions asked by the Chinese ladies whom I go to visit, in
their dim, cheerless rooms at the back of the house, is ’Does your
husband beat you?’ and when I shake my head and say I am not married,
they look astounded, and say: ’_So_ old, and no husband!’
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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