Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
In this and other ways we find that polygamy was threatened on many
sides. As an accepted and legalised form of marriage it tends to
disappear with the conditions under which social life is developed.
Like the maternal marriage, and other primitive experiments in sexual
associations, polygamy is not a form of marriage that can be regarded as
a permanent expression of the marriage law: that is, it is experimental
and suitable to special conditions; it is not a final form, growing up
by custom from earlier practices, or one which strives for mastery and
will not tolerate other co-existent forms. On the other hand, monogamy
has always been characterised by the strongest self-assertion, and from
the earliest times we find it triumphing, and more and more seeking to
exclude other forms of marriage.
These facts of the past history of marriage need to be considered by
those who seek to bring discredit on monogamous marriage. Various
reformers, too frightenedly concerned with the present shortage of men,
increasing as it will enormously the disproportion between the number of
the two sexes, have jumped to the conclusion that polygamy is likely to
be legalised in the near future. I do not believe it. At least, it will
not be polygamy under the form we have known it in the past. Polygamy has
always been connected with the property value of woman and is dependent
upon wealth. For this reason, even if for no other, polygamy will not
replace monogamous marriages. Such a marriage system could not be
supported by war-impoverished countries. The remedy must be a different
one, as presently I shall show.
There is a strange idea among some people that sexual happiness can be
gained by breaking away from the traditional bonds; it is the visible
sign of our confusion as a people and the want of happiness in our lives.
We should not set at naught the experience of the ages. Polygamy is an
institution which in the growth of civilisation belongs only to primitive
or non-progressive states. No race or nation has ever risen to front
rank, or even secondary rank, under this marriage system. Our preference
for monogamy goes beyond laws and religions. It is that deeply rooted
thing—a matter of racial experience and desire. It is the best way that
we have yet found of men and women living together.
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