Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The quotation I have placed before these three chapters on Sexual
Education, which form the fifth and final section of my book, is taken
from the play, _The Awakening of Spring_, by Frank Wedekind; he calls
it a tragedy of childhood, and dedicates the work to parents and to
teachers. The play deals with a group of school children, just entering
the age of puberty, and consists mainly of their conversations one with
another. These imaginative young souls speculate about the mysteries of
birth and sex in a manner that is typical of all children, not mentally
inert. Herein rests the great value of the work: we come to realise the
terrible darkness surrounding the sexual life of the great majority of
boys and girls, with the resulting tragedies that may, and often do,
destroy health and even life. Unable to explain the forces germinating
in their nature, these children are hindered and crushed by the sham
decencies and complacent morality that greet their blind gropings. Never
was a more powerful indictment made against the sham of our educational
system as a preparation for life.
The manner in which, up to the present time, we have ignored the need of
the young for enlightenment and guidance in questions of such elemental
importance to health and well-being is at once remarkable and difficult
to understand. Under the influence of the idea of the sinfulness and
radically evil nature of the sexual life, we have stood helpless, as
if we were faced with a mysterious and malignant power; we have left
the development even of our own children to the blind hazard of chance.
Those among us who were wiser were not heeded. Celebrated pedagogues of
a hundred years ago, such as Rousseau, Salzmann, Jean Paul and others,
expressed themselves strongly in favour of the early sexual enlightenment
of youth, and gave many valuable suggestions as to the methods of such
teaching. Their wise recommendations remained for the most part without
practical results. Only in recent years, in connection with the question
of the protection of motherhood and the campaign against prostitution,
has interest in the matter been reawakened. A heightened sense of
responsibility has been quickened amongst us. An increased knowledge,
gained by the patient work of investigation of the sexual impulse, is
proving the immense importance of its right direction in the individual
life. This would seem to be forcing us to act.
To-day it is conceded, even by many who are conservative in their
attitude to sex, that the old plan of silence and leaving this matter to
chance, has been a fatal mistake: we are coming to understand that every
child has a sacred claim to wise training in sex knowledge.
There can be no doubt of our past guilt. The proof rests in unnumbered
and needless disasters in the lives of almost all of us—sufferings
unendurable and maiming; hurts to our deepest selves, that we have come
to understand only when our thoughts have been liberated by knowledge.
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