Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
An attempt to find the remedy—What is the real root of the
evil—The young woman of the new generation—The years since
the war began—An examination of present conditions—What
is likely to happen when peace comes—The independent
woman—The Commissioner’s Report of the National Birth-Rate
Investigation, 1916—The failure in our lives—Where is the
real root of the evil—The whole educational system of girls
in our homes and in our schools is wrong—The importance of
menstruation—Influence of conventionality—Wrong ideals set
before girls—The destruction working in our midst—Fear of sex
directs our educational system—The remedy to begin in our
schools—We must educate girls to be women—Menstruation and the
girl’s special sexual life must be emphasised and not as now
ignored—Adolescent schools—The sexual life of the adolescent
girl—The difficulties that must be faced—Opposition on the part
of women—Motherhood to be saved—Regeneration of the girl’s
instincts through consciousness—The hope with which we may look
to the future—Motherhood will triumph.
CHAPTER XVI
A CONTINUATION OF THE LAST CHAPTER, WITH AN ATTEMPT TO SUGGEST A REMEDY
“With fear and trembling take care of the heart of the people;
that is the root of the matter in education—that is the highest
in education.”—K’UNG FU ’TZU.
It is, of course, easy to write of these evils, the difficult thing is
to find the remedy. And the question I now wish to put squarely is this:
Where is the real root of the evil, what is wrong in our educational
ideals that accounts for our failure to develop the best and happiest
type of women? You may, of course, deny this, and assert that we do not
fail, but that will not alter facts. I say we are creating a race of
work-efficient and highly educated, but unsatisfied women, whose very
independence betrays their sorrow. This is a very serious matter. It
would seem that our young women have now for the first time realised
their power in outside things. War has acted quickly in facilitating
their economic emancipation. But I find it hard not to think that this
may involve a cost which their womanhood will not bear without injury
more or less profound. Women are being sold to work in the same way that
formerly men were sold. And though no one can know the results, I am very
far from sharing the sense of satisfaction expressed by so many to-day:
I fear for the girls I see in such numbers in every place of work a
deadening of response to life—a further clog and degradation of womanly
feeling and instincts. And as I have said again and again, my fear is
much deeper, because this externalisation of life is no new thing. I
could add more, much more; but words—what are they in the face of facts!
Last week I was in conversation with a young and comely tram conductress.
She was married: I asked her if she had children. She answered me: “My
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