Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
The adolescent girl often is thought to be lazy, and when called upon
to work she shows an exasperating dulness and inattention. This is
a natural condition when the girl is passing through the langour of
physical growth; she is overcome, not by listlessness, but by the strain
of her awakening senses, and the inattention of the mind is, as a rule,
but a symptom of the mysterious and difficult maturing of the brain. The
apparent apathy is not real: all the girl’s power, all energy of body and
mind is being consumed by the overwhelming force of the half-conscious
life of instincts that are ripening within. The young girl for the first
time feels, though very rarely does she understand, the power of her
nature stirring her soul. And any seeming backwardness in studies during
these years, as should be known by the wise teacher, leads afterwards to
finer progress, if only the right opportunity of unstrained development
is given. But it is this harmony of growth that we have been disturbing
as with persistent zeal we have educated from the outside. Little wonder
that we have failed. I have spoken before of the wide difference that is
present between the nature of the boy and that of the girl, and though
I speak with hesitation on a question that is too complex to permit
dogmatic assertions, the boy has, I think, a much more healthy and
conscious knowledge of himself; a girl understands herself less, and
has a very dim notion of the motives of her conduct. This leads to very
certain danger. The thoughts of most girls are occupied with vague and
romantic longings, much heightened by the nonsense written on love in
the books girls are allowed to read, stories from which every hint of
wholesome reality has been omitted. Such false feelings, dominating the
girl’s mind at the time of the adolescent crisis, work grave evil.
While always thinking of love most girls know almost nothing of what love
really is; and certainly the strain of any sudden chance investigation of
the physical facts of sex is a very near danger.
That is one reason why, in a previous section, I have urged so strongly
that sexual enlightenment be given to the girl while she is still at the
age when sex has no strong personal significance.
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