Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
If I understand this aright, the conclusion seems forced upon us that
parental conduct is directly dependent on the action of the sexual
appetite: that it may be modified, and in some cases profoundly changed,
by any variation in this appetite’s strength and expression. This is of
profound interest, and such a view, if established, might explain a great
deal.[34] But can it be accepted? To say that such changes are due to
the action of the “hormones,” or secretions of the sexual glands, does
not help us very much. What we want to know is what induces the changes.
There is much that cannot yet be explained. If I may venture to speculate
on so difficult a question, it would seem that when the intensity of
sex-hunger becomes for any reason stronger in the females than in the
males, the result may be a diminishing of the instincts of motherhood.
It is as if the egotistic desires of sex were in opposition to the
racial duties. This would explain the female phalaropes, whose maternal
instincts are completely atrophied. Does it not suggest also a possible
explanation of some failures in human motherhood? This opens up questions
that reach very far. I am tempted to wait to enlarge on the immense
significance of these unnatural bird-mothers in the analogy their conduct
bears to one of the most difficult cases of human motherhood—the strongly
sexual woman who bears children but is quite unfit and without any desire
to rear them. I shall have more to say in the later part of my inquiry
about such women, who are driven by passion to be mothers without having
any instinct for motherhood.
But now a return must be made to the birds’ nurseries. It is a matter
of common knowledge that birds display a marvellous solicitude for the
welfare of the young, and their family life presents a beautiful and
high standard of conduct.[35] There are very few examples of birds who
are bad fathers. Often the male rivals the female in love for the young;
he is in constant attendance in the vicinity of the nest; he guards,
feeds, and sings to the female, and often shares with her the duty of
incubation. The cock ostrich, for example, watches by night over the hole
in which the eggs have been buried, and the hen takes this duty by day.
The screamer birds, again, work in shifts of two or three hours each.
When they bred in the London Zoological Gardens, it was noticed that the
cock-bird acted as timekeeper, and at the end of a watch used to come and
push the female off the nest.[36] These examples are delightful. It would
seem almost that the males, when infected with paternal passion, were
more ardent and regular in the performance of nursery duties than the
mother.
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