Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
To produce large families, making little provision for them, is a
wasteful and improvident way of maintaining life. This spendthrift
fashion of reproduction was the early method. To limit the number of
the family and to cherish and protect the young, not throwing them upon
the world until they are well fitted to make a brave fight against its
dangers, is the later, wiser and safer way. We have noted devices of this
kind in each group of the animal kingdom, but parental care becomes more
and more complete as the scale of life is ascended. Not only are the
numbers in the family reduced, but the period of youth becomes longer.
The protected young are permitted a longer time in which they have the
opportunity of learning to live.
The importance of the form of union or marriage between the parents and
of the kind of home must be considered. We have found that polygamous
fathers and polyandrous mothers care little for the young. The withdrawal
of the interest and care of either parent is a source of weakness which
can be compensated only by an added devotion on the part of the remaining
parent.
We have noted the withdrawal of the father from active work for the
family. This came with the greater importance of the mother, which
itself was not the result of any conscious act. It was a necessary step,
following the change from external to internal protection, whereby the
young are retained within the body of the mother. Animal parents do not
teach us that mothers are always more devoted and self-sacrificing than
fathers. Sometimes, indeed, the contrary would appear to be true. Even
the mother’s instinct to protect and serve the young, which seems to
increase as we ascend the scale towards human parentage, must, I think,
be regarded as an extended egoism. Formed in her body and fed from her
sustenance, the young are a part of her individuality, and her solicitude
for them is but a wider caring for herself.
There are many surprises in animal parenthood. The conduct of the parents
may vary within very wide limits, and all kinds of devices are employed
by different parents to ensure the well-being of the family. Solicitude
and sacrifice for the young are common, but indifference also occurs; and
there are unnatural parents of both sexes who shirk family duties. We
have found, indeed, the suggestion of all the virtues of human parents
as well as many of their sins, every form of devotion and intelligent
parenthood as well as examples of folly and neglect.
We have observed the greatest difference in particular in the conduct
of the father as regards his participation in the work of building the
home and in feeding and rearing the young. Thereby we have learnt that a
psychic metamorphosis of the male may occur, causing him to fulfil the
duties of the mother, and that accompanying this is an alteration in the
character of the female which completely transforms her sexual nature.
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