Motherhood and the Relationships of the SexesHartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Philosophy
Motherhood and the Relationships of the Sexes
Hartley, C. Gasquoine (Catherine Gasquoine)
Mothers; Sex; Women -- Social and moral questions
And first it should be noted that the history of human parenthood from
its earliest known appearance shows an orderly progress from the start
to the end. There is no difficulty even in fixing the beginning. Man,
the gorilla, the orang and the chimpanzee had a common ancestor, and for
this reason the parental stages of the great apes and of man have an
almost startling resemblance. Professor Metchnikoff was so impressed by
this likeness that he has suggested that the human race may have taken
its origin from the precocious birth of an ape. We thus find no gap that
has to be filled: we take up our inquiry of the family at the exact place
at which we left it. There are, of course, changes to fit the parents
and the young for their new stage of life; more and more instincts are
modified by experiment and experience. Intelligence grows. New habits
afford possibilities of advance, and suggest the directions in which the
family may move. There are, however, far fewer experiments, less sharp
differences in the conduct of the different parents; the family shows
less flexibility, and the maternal instincts settle down, as it were, to
an average character, with average limitations and an average expression.
Our most primitive ancestors, half-men, half-brutes, lived in small,
solitary, and hostile family groups, composed of an adult male, his wife,
or, if he were powerful, several wives and their children. In such a
group the father is the chief or patriarch as long as he lives, and the
family is held together by their common subjection to him. His interest
in the family is confined to fighting to drive off rivals, and, for this
reason, he drives his sons from the home as soon as they are old enough
to be dangerous to his interests: his daughters he adds to his wives,
unless they are caught and carried off by some other male.
It was doubtless thus, in a family organisation similar to that of the
great monkeys, that man first lived. Here was the most primitive form of
jealous government of the family by the male. Such conduct, prompted by
the egoistic desires of sex, mark the continuation of the degradation
in fatherhood, which we noted as occurring among the mammals as soon as
the father was freed from the duties of providing a home and the first
feeding and tending of the young.
In the primitive families the idea of descent is feeble so that the
groups are small and readily disrupted. But though originally without
explicit consciousness of relationships, the members would be held
together by a _feeling_ of kin. Such feeling would become conscious first
between the mothers and their children, and in this way mother-kin must
have been realised at a very early period. The father’s relationship, on
the other hand, would not be forced into conscious recognition. He would
be a member apart from this natural kinship.
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