Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
General
Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
It requires much patience and no small degree of skill to take a girl
from another country, whose whole life and associations have been
entirely different from our own, and bring her into a new life by
teaching her to forget all her early habits and modes of working. It is
a great and uncommon gift to be able to do this with patient kindness,
and yet with such authority as insures obedience. Success in such an
undertaking is a blessing both to the teacher and the pupil. Now and
then we find one who, under such teaching and benevolent guidance, has
fully repaid all the thought and care which has been bestowed upon her,
and who, by her fidelity and unwearied energy, has won the love and
grateful appreciation of all, and is looked upon as the good angel of
the family. But we regret to say such characters are rare; and though,
in some instances, the impatience and irritability of the mistress may
repress much of good which, under better auspices, might have been
developed, yet we do not believe as a general rule that the chief blame
should rest with the mistress. Not one in a hundred--and that we fear
is a high proportion--of all the Irish that come to our country can, by
any amount of care, patience, or indefatigable teaching, be transformed
into a neat, energetic, faithful, truth-telling servant; and as for
gratitude, once in a while you may find one who remembers your faithful
teaching, your kindness and care in times of sickness or trouble, who
cannot be turned from her fidelity and attachment to you; but for the
most part all this vanishes like the morning dew, at the first chance
for easier work or higher wages.
The English and Scotch, as far as our observation goes, are more
inclined to make their employers’ interest their own. They labor as
faithfully, and watch with an eye to economy quite as earnestly, when
left in charge alone, as when the master and mistress are near them. Of
course there are exceptions to every rule; and we speak more from our
own experience than from what others say.
The Swiss and Swedes are usually smart and capable; but their inability
to understand our language when they first come to us, makes their
instruction difficult and tedious, unless the mistress is well versed
in foreign languages.
A good Welsh girl is one of the best,--usually neat, active, and quick
to learn; and as the pastors of the Welsh churches hold it a part of
their duty to exercise careful supervision over those under their
charge, that acts as a great safeguard.
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