Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
General
Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Of course, when there is no necessity for close economy, there are
a thousand elegances with which it is perfectly proper to beautify,
not only the family rooms, but the guest-chamber; but the things
here specified are convenient and some really necessary for all
sleeping-rooms, and can be procured or made by home ingenuity. Beautify
and enrich the guest-room as lavishly as good taste and your ability
will allow, only let the family chamber be not neglected for that
purpose.
LXII.
THE CARE OF INFANTS.
“ARE our little ones so related to household cares, that Mrs. Beecher
will give young mothers, now and then, a few words of instruction on
the management of infants? I am a young _mother_ as well as _young
housekeeper_, and although not very competent, I, and probably many
others, could easier work our way unaided to a respectable standing
in all that pertains to the manual labor of the household, than risk
mistakes in the care and training of our babies. I think the little
ones very necessary to the formation of a true household, and am ready
to accept any care and annoyance, if I may only be certain that I am
not giving my strength for naught, but so that in these early days
I may be enabled to ward off illness, and keep my baby healthy and
vigorous. It is usually happy and quiet; but there are times when
mind and body are taxed to the utmost limit of my endurance. It often
has _spells_ of crying, when no skill which I possess can soothe the
disturbance, whatever may be the cause, or lull the little one to
sleep. In no way, either by medical advice or the exercise of my own
judgment, can I discover the cause, or find any indication which would
show the child to be unhealthy.”
We most certainly consider the little ones very peculiarly a part of
“The Household” department, and will cheerfully give any assistance to
young mothers that is within our power. We have before this been called
upon to answer similar questions, and see no reason to change the
answers we have felt to be correct.
Young mothers are frequently told, we think very unwisely, “You have no
cause for anxiety. Most infants either have their crying spells until
they are three months old, or are very quiet and serene up to that
period, and then change and cry, and are restless most of the time till
some months later.” Believing this, the young mother tries to possess
her soul in patience, and struggles on, waiting for the good time
coming. But we think there is always some definite cause for a trouble
which robs the mother for months of a large portion of the pleasure
her infant should bring her, and makes the new world into which the
little pilgrim has just entered so truly “a vale of tears.” The cause
once ascertained, there must be some remedy found, through the large
experience of so many mothers who have been harassed and perplexed by
similar trials.
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