Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
But here is another whose garments are all sensibly adjusted, yet its
piteous cries are enough to make the heart ache. What is the matter?
Touch the little blue hands, and you will find them like ice. Take the
child in your lap; draw your chair to the fire; heat a blanket and
wrap about it; lay it on the stomach, across your lap, holding the
cold hands in one of yours; shake out the foolishly long robes, till,
hidden somewhere in this mass of flannel and embroidery, you find the
numb little toes, and hold them toward the fire till warm. See how
it stretches its feet to the fire, and puts the pretty face close up
to your warm hands. Many a child who has cried for hours, taxing all
the mother’s strength and skill, and filling her heart with alarm,
will, under this simple treatment, in a few minutes be fast asleep.
Only turning a child over in the crib--anything to change its position
when you find that it begins to cry or becomes restless before its nap
is finished--will sometimes soothe it to quiet slumber, give it the
benefit of a long sleep, and you sufficient time to accomplish many
things which must have been laid aside had baby waked too soon.
Endeavor to imagine yourself in an infant’s place when it manifests
symptoms you do not well understand. You wrap its hands and feet so
closely, when you lay it down to sleep, that it cannot stir. Could
you remain two hours thus fettered without becoming cramped and full
of pain? Loosen the wrappings; shake up the pillow and turn it over
occasionally that the little head may rest on a cool spot (and, by
the way, a good hair pillow, not too full, and well beaten every day,
that it may not become lumpy, is far more healthful for any child than
feathers). If awake, change its position; or if it has lain long, take
it up, toss it gently, and play with it awhile to give it a pleasant
variety, and cause the blood to circulate freely through the whole body.
If these simple methods do not pacify a crying child, it is very
probable that some of the above-mentioned causes have produced colic;
but do not give the simplest medicine till you have tried what virtue
there is in an _enema_ of tepid water. Unless the crying indicates the
beginning of some acute disease, we have invariably found the effects
almost magical, and in no case will it be hurtful.
Never nurse your child when you are chilled, fatigued, or terrified.
The child, however hungry, must wait, or be otherwise fed, until
your own system becomes quiet. It must be a very strong child who
will not suffer from the nourishment the mother offers while under
such disturbance. If your excitement proceeds from fear, go to your
husband or some friend who has the power to soothe or talk you into
quietude, before you see your child. If fatigued, sit down and rest; if
overheated, wash your face and hands in cool water, keeping out of any
current of air, and become thoroughly cool before you nurse your baby.
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