Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
General
Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Yet to arrange a plan for each day requires thought and judgment,
and she must be a wonderful character who, from the beginning, can
so perfect a code of laws for the regular discharge of household
labor, that no modification or change will be necessary. If a young
housekeeper, at the end of one year’s trial, begins to feel somewhat at
home in her dominions, she should be well content, nor allow a shadow
of discouragement to mar her comfort, even if now and then she finds
her carefully planned rules requiring some little adjustment, to secure
a smooth and easy action. _Try_, and _reject_, until you have secured a
plan by which _you_, the mistress, can best manage others, or yourself
perform the work. No one can tell you by what rules you can best govern
your domains. Suggestions may be given, which will be of great service
in enabling you to arrive at the desired results in the most successful
and expeditious manner; but further than that, _the work to do is
yours, and not another’s_. Each one must work out the problem of what
is best for herself individually, with what aid she can glean from the
experience of others, according as it shall be congenial, or adapted to
her own peculiar way of working and her own peculiar position.
Even those daughters who are fresh from the wise instructions of a
mother, who led them with her through a daily round of cares until they
are as skillful in domestic management as she is herself, will not
find, when they enter the marriage state, the duties of their new homes
exactly like those of their mother. Many things may, and doubtless
will, compel a somewhat different administration, although the
fundamental principles will be still the same. The husband’s position
may demand change in the mode of proceedings to which she has, from
childhood, been accustomed. His tastes or means may render it advisable
that the wife should modify or enlarge her rules for the performance
of domestic duties. The desired change may, from necessity, or from
_whims_, which for permanent happiness she will be wise to humor, be so
abrupt and entire as to require almost a new mode of action and labor,
calling for much deliberation before it can be perfectly satisfactory;
and of course this will be almost like commencing an education from the
beginning.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account