Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Little by little, as the child grows toward womanhood, let the mother
throw off some portion of her cares, teaching her daughters to
oversee or perform them correctly, and by so doing not only lighten
her own labors, but make such duties easy for her children in after
years, or if they should be called prematurely to the entire charge.
When daughters are old enough to become their mother’s companions,
they should also become joint partners in home and household
responsibilities. When out of school, divide the work so that every
other week the mother shall be entirely free from all care,--a guest
in the family; or if that is at first too great a tax on the young
partner, “take turns” in dividing the work,--the daughter one week
having the charge of the cooking, marketing, and arranging for each
meal entirely herself; the next week, of the dairy, if on a farm, or
the laundry or chamber- work. When each week is ended, the mother can
point out the failures, or recommend a better or easier way of doing
some particular thing; but unless advice or directions are asked, it is
far better that the young housekeeper should be left to her own skill
and judgment. For a few times this may not prove the best economy, but
in the end “it pays,” and with good interest. Of course, before this
plan can be carried into execution to any extent, the young lady has
served an apprenticeship, so far as to know, herself, that part of the
work which comes under her jurisdiction each week; and when practice
shall have made perfect, and the term of apprenticeship expires, it is
excellent discipline for a daughter to assume the reins entirely, for
a shorter or longer time, as health or pleasure may determine, subject
to such suggestions as may be deemed advisable. This arrangement gives
rest and liberty, if all her children are grown up, for the mother to
read, travel, or enjoy social life; as she could not do when they were
young and needing the mother’s care,--which should never be delegated
to another, unless compelled by ill health. This is a most valuable
training, by which the young housekeeper is prepared for a useful life,
or a happy home of her own some day.
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