Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
Never, under any circumstances, _strike a child on the head_ or _box
the ears_. That is the act of anger, and in general is practiced only
when the judgment is overruled by passion. Do not attempt to turn a
child from the “error of his ways” by any such heathenish means. No one
can judge at the time of the force of a blow dealt in anger; and though
done thoughtlessly, in a moment of irritation, it may bring life-long
suffering and sorrow. So, shutting up a child in a dark room, though
it may not appear at the time so barbarous, has often resulted in
the most painful, if not fatal injuries. Neither do we approve of
attempting to convert a child through its appetite; a dark room, a cup
of water, and a crust of bread savors too much of the inquisition or
the convict’s cell for Christian parents to imitate.
After all, each one must be a law unto himself. Another cannot give
special rules for any one; but there is one thing that it may be well
for every parent to bear in mind always, namely, that probably a large
proportion of the evil we find in our children is but the continuation
or increase of our own faults, unheeded while they were our own.
And this should teach us great caution, great love and gentleness
in governing our little imitators. Mrs. Mary Crann, some years ago,
published some pretty verses on “The Little Foxes,” which spoil our
“beloved vines.” They are very touching, because so true, and mothers
cannot fail to read them with deep feeling, and with full hearts
thank the author who in these lines gives utterance to the sorrow and
self-condemnation which so often oppress them, when their own faults
and failings look at them through their little ones. We think we cannot
do better than to finish by giving our readers the whole poem:--
“Little foxes, spoiling
The beloved vine
Trusted to my tending
By the One Divine.
Little foxes, wherefore
Have ye entrance found
To the vine so precious
Growing in my ground?
“Have ye leaped the fences?
Have ye climbed the wall?
Were there tiny openings?
Ye are very small,
And ye can creep slyly
Through a tiny space;
But I thought I closed up
Every open place.
“And I watched by daytime,
And I watched by night,
For the vine you’re spoiling
Is my heart’s delight!
I have kept the earth-worm
From its precious root;
I have trimmed its branches,
But they bear no fruit.
“For the little foxes
Have assailed the vine,
Trusted to my tending
By the One Divine;
And though I’ve been faithful
Since its birthday morn,
They were in the garden
When the babe was born.
“For they are the failings
That I would not see
When they were _my_ failings,
When they dwelt in me;
Little faults unheeded,
That I now despise;
For my baby took them
With my hair and eyes.
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