Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
It is possible that parents often err in their mode of inculcating
economy, and, while striving to enforce its practice, render the whole
subject, and every idea connected with it, distasteful by overmuch
teaching. However that may be, for some reason the young appear to
look upon it as something to be shunned, feeling that they would “lose
caste,” if they even spoke of it, and to attempt to practice it would
shut them out from certain acquaintances as something quite inferior.
So, if compelled to economize, they do it secretly, while they think
of it as an evil to be deplored. All their little devices to “keep up
appearances,” and bring their surroundings into harmony with their more
wealthy neighbors, they shrink from having known, as from real disgrace
or guilt; whereas the ingenuity displayed is something often worthy
of much praise, if used openly, without regard to foolish criticisms.
Those who have the _gift_ to practice a judicious economy, to save
carefully, because it is _right_, and not from a niggardly, miserly
desire to hoard,--in household affairs, in dress, or in anything that
comes under their care,--are endowed with a talent for which they may
well be proud, and which is recognized by all sensible people as most
desirable, even by those who are placed in circumstances where the
closest watchfulness and care may not be a necessity.
But it is not merely as matter of necessity that we wish to direct
the attention of all good housekeepers to the duty of thrift and
carefulness in the management of their affairs. We do not think the
poor, or those merely in moderate circumstances, should be allowed to
monopolize all the pleasure which, if rightly viewed, can be secured
by a frugal use and proper economy of the good things of this world
that may be placed at our disposal. The rich have an equal right with
the poor to share in this pleasure. A proper education, presenting
this subject in the true light, will show conclusively that the more
abundant the riches, the greater will be the satisfaction derived from
proper discretion and judgment in the use and distribution of them. The
good one can do, the large amount of personal happiness to be secured
by the good done, would be sufficient motives, even if there were no
higher, for strict watchfulness against waste, even in the smallest
item. If one has the means, and recognizes the greater convenience
of making purchases in large quantities, there is no degradation in
doing it _because_ it is also the better economy. But because they
have bought by the wholesale, and filled their store-rooms with large
and generous supplies, they must not feel that they have nothing to
do but fold their hands and allow others to scatter their stores
recklessly and without judgment. Making the purchases and seeing them
carefully put in place is by no means the end of their duty. They are
but stewards of God’s bounties, and a steward may not relax his care.
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