Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
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Motherly talks with young housekeepers: embracing eighty-seven brief articles on topics of home interest, and about five hundred choice receipts for cooking, etc.
Beecher, H. W., Mrs.
Cooking; Home economics
But there are no two the same. Each differs so widely in taste,
disposition, and habits, that it necessitates as many modes of
management as there are children in the family. One is loving and
gentle. The parents need but express a wish, and, through the
affections, the child finds its greatest pleasure in yielding its own
wishes to secure theirs. Another is timid and sensitive to the last
degree. A sharp “word at random spoken,” or ill-advised censure, may
have “eternal power through life to wound,” because this very timidity
induces a habit of reticence and concealment; the child preferring to
endure the pain, rather than go through the ordeal of an explanation or
justification; and the next one may be too proud to attempt it, both
coming to the same results through widely different peculiarities.
One is bold and outspoken; another carelessly, recklessly happy,
forgetting or neglecting all the rules of home in the overflowing
joyousness of living; another is so under the influence of
approbativeness, that to please and be approved, crowd independent,
manly action out of sight; and the mother is too happy, if the power of
this peculiarity does not too often draw the child beyond the bounds of
strict honor and truthfulness.
And so through a large family you may look in vain for two so similar
in character that, by taking that course which proves best for one, you
may safely guide the other by it.
A mother of eight children, whose faith is wellnigh exhausted, who is
cast down and wholly discouraged, thinks she would gladly die to escape
the great responsibility of managing them; and this responsibility
is growing greater and greater each year, as her boys and girls are
leaving babyhood behind, and rapidly springing up toward manhood and
womanhood. While they were little she enjoyed every moment, never
feeling the care a burden. By and by one was taken from her, and for a
while she refused to be comforted, till the Saviour spake and drew her
to him.
But while she has evidently learned to _believe_ in Jesus, we think she
has not yet learned to _trust_. After her conversion, the sense of her
obligations to lead her children by the strait and narrow road has, we
think, pressed very heavily upon her, and she is in danger, not only of
hedging the path so closely as to render it distasteful, and to drive
them from it, but is also depriving herself of all the joy she might
possess by their true and loving companionship. She becomes alarmed at
every act which teaches her that her children are but mortal, and sees
in it evidence conclusive that they are rapidly going to destruction.
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